{"id":8735,"date":"2017-08-15T15:23:42","date_gmt":"2017-08-15T19:23:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=8735\/"},"modified":"2017-08-15T15:23:42","modified_gmt":"2017-08-15T19:23:42","slug":"pourquoi-je-dirige-mes-clients-vers-al-anon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/pourquoi-je-dirige-mes-clients-vers-al-anon\/","title":{"rendered":"Pourquoi je dirige mes clients vers Al-Anon"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>La derni\u00e8re fois que j\u2019ai mentionn\u00e9 Al-Anon, c\u2019\u00e9tait il y a quelques semaines de cela, quand j\u2019ai parl\u00e9 avec une cliente. Cette derni\u00e8re \u00e9tait l\u2019exemple parfait de ce que je consid\u00e8re \u00eatre la situation Al-Anon typique\u00a0: une femme ayant dans les soixante-dix ans, divorc\u00e9e, m\u00e8re d\u2019une fille affect\u00e9e par la maladie \u00a0qu\u2019est l&rsquo;alcoolisme.<\/p>\n<p>La cliente \u2013 que j&rsquo;appellerai Pearl \u2013 souffrait constamment d\u2019anxi\u00e9t\u00e9. M\u00e8re et fille communiquaient quotidiennement en \u00e9changeant de multiples appels t\u00e9l\u00e9phoniques, textos et courriels. Pearl conduisait r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement devant l&rsquo;appartement voisin de sa fille pour voir si elle \u00e9tait all\u00e9e au travail. Pearl donnait des conseils \u00e0 sa fille sur tout. Bref, elles se rendaient mutuellement folles.<\/p>\n<p>Dans l&rsquo;esprit de Pearl, son investissement excessif dans la vie de sa fille provenait d&rsquo;une grande crainte que celle-ci pourrait conduire sous l&rsquo;influence de l&rsquo;alcool. Pearl avait un grand nombre de difficult\u00e9s et de traumatismes dans sa propre vie et, \u00e0 cause de cela, il lui \u00e9tait particuli\u00e8rement difficile de \u00ab\u00a0l\u00e2cher prise et de s\u2019en remettre \u00e0 Dieu.\u00a0\u00bb Cela faisait plusieurs ann\u00e9es que Pearl s\u2019\u00e9tait tourn\u00e9e vers Al-Anon, mais cherchant \u00e0 am\u00e9liorer son bien-\u00eatre, elle est retourn\u00e9e vers le programme. Elle l\u2019a presqu\u2019imm\u00e9diatement trouv\u00e9 b\u00e9n\u00e9fique.<\/p>\n<p>Al-Anon offre un don extr\u00eamement efficace que je n&rsquo;ai pas vu aussi bien inculqu\u00e9 ailleurs\u00a0: le d\u00e9tachement. Je dirige r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement des clients vers le programme, autant pour les comp\u00e9tences que pour le soutien qu&rsquo;ils trouvent aupr\u00e8s de personnes qui comprennent leurs probl\u00e8mes. Je leur demande \u00e9galement de lire quotidiennement les pages du livre <em>Al-Anon un jour \u00e0 la fois <\/em>qui traitent du d\u00e9tachement. Parvenir \u00e0 pratiquer le d\u00e9tachement et rester ind\u00e9pendant, c&rsquo;est l\u00e0 o\u00f9 se trouve le point central du pouvoir. Se concentrer sur l\u2019alcoolique n\u2019est pas une bonne fa\u00e7on d\u2019utiliser son temps.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai une bonne formule pour r\u00e9pondre aux clients qui disent\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Je peux m\u2019en sortir sans l\u2019aide de personne!\u00a0\u00bb Imaginez-vous un \u00eatre cher avec un probl\u00e8me de d\u00e9pendance \u00e0 l\u2019alcool. Tous seuls, vous faites tout ce que vous pouvez pour modifier votre fa\u00e7on de r\u00e9agir. O\u00f9 je vis, le ferry fait des allers-retours de Cape Cod \u00e0 Martha&rsquo;s Vineyard plusieurs fois par jour. Imaginez le programme comme un ferry \u2013 un grand groupe de personnes qui discutent, qui boivent du caf\u00e9 et font le voyage en toute s\u00e9curit\u00e9. Pourquoi quelqu&rsquo;un d\u00e9ciderait-il d\u2019utiliser une barque \u00e0 la place pour pagayer seul?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Beth Wechsler, Travailleuse sociale et th\u00e9rapeute clinicienne, LICSW<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Mashpee, Massachusetts<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[272,222,228],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8735","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-al-anon-face-a-lalcoolisme","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique","category-professionnels"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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