{"id":4992,"date":"2016-06-15T15:20:54","date_gmt":"2016-06-15T19:20:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=4992\/"},"modified":"2017-07-27T13:50:44","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T17:50:44","slug":"je-croyais-que-mes-problemes-familiaux-etaient-un-cas-isole","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/je-croyais-que-mes-problemes-familiaux-etaient-un-cas-isole\/","title":{"rendered":"Je croyais que mes probl\u00e8mes familiaux \u00e9taient un cas isol\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Avant d\u2019aller \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al-Anon, je croyais que l\u2019abus d\u2019alcool et de drogues de mon fils adolescent \u00e9tait un cas isol\u00e9. J\u2019ai essay\u00e9 de cacher le probl\u00e8me aux autres parents et aux enseignants. Je me suis isol\u00e9, j\u2019ai enfoui mes \u00e9motions et j\u2019ai eu recours \u00e0 la violence verbale. J\u2019avais honte et j\u2019avais peur. Les actions de mon fils dominaient notre vie familiale; alors, je me suis dit\u00a0:\u00a0\u00ab\u00a0Si seulement je pouvais \u00eatre plus rus\u00e9 que lui, si je pouvais mener la cadence et surveiller son comportement plus intens\u00e9ment\u2026 je pourrais le changer.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>\u00c0 la fin, aucune de mes actions \u00e0 la maison n\u2019a contribu\u00e9 au changement du comportement de mon fils. Le fait de jouer les martyres ne faisait rien d\u2019autre que de me heurter moi. L\u2019\u00ab\u00a0anxi\u00e9t\u00e9 anticipatoire\u00a0\u00bb que je ressentais dans tous les domaines de ma vie n\u2019avait d\u2019autre fin que de me rendre malade.<\/p>\n<p>C\u2019est gr\u00e2ce au \u00ab\u00a0cadeau\u00a0\u00bb du d\u00e9sespoir que j\u2019ai assist\u00e9 \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al-Anon. Ma vie \u00e9tait un tel \u00ab\u00a0secret\u00a0\u00bb que j\u2019avais m\u00eame song\u00e9 \u00e0 utiliser un faux pr\u00e9nom \u00e0 l\u2019ouverture de cette premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union. J\u2019ai appris que je pouvais partager certaines facettes de moi-m\u00eame d\u2019une mani\u00e8re confidentielle, sans crainte d\u2019\u00eatre jug\u00e9 et de devoir recevoir de conseils \u2013 chose que je ne voulais pas. Je suis humain \u2013 et donc je ne suis pas parfait \u2013 et, comme tout le monde, je traverse des moments heureux et tristes. Je ne peux pas r\u00e9gler le monde, mais je peux m\u2019y retrouver.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>David, Rhode Island<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[222],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4992","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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