{"id":4983,"date":"2016-06-15T15:07:02","date_gmt":"2016-06-15T19:07:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=4983\/"},"modified":"2017-07-27T13:57:26","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T17:57:26","slug":"je-nen-suis-pas-la-cause-je-ne-puis-le-controler-et-je-ne-puis-guerir-lalcoolique","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/je-nen-suis-pas-la-cause-je-ne-puis-le-controler-et-je-ne-puis-guerir-lalcoolique\/","title":{"rendered":"Je n\u2019en suis pas la cause, je ne puis le contr\u00f4ler et je ne puis gu\u00e9rir l\u2019alcoolique"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Quand je suis all\u00e9e \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al-Anon, j\u2019avais beaucoup d\u2019appr\u00e9hension. La derni\u00e8re chose que je voulais faire, c\u2019\u00e9tait d\u2019aller dans une salle remplie d\u2019\u00e9trangers et de leur parler de mes probl\u00e8mes personnels. Je ne sais comment, mais j\u2019ai trouv\u00e9 le courage d\u2019entrer dans une salle de r\u00e9union, en d\u00e9pit du fait que tout mon \u00eatre voulait courir dans l\u2019autre direction.<\/p>\n<p>L\u2019une des premi\u00e8res choses que j\u2019ai entendues \u00e9tait\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Aucune situation n\u2019est vraiment d\u00e9sesp\u00e9r\u00e9e\u2026\u00a0\u00bb J\u2019ai aussi entendu que je n\u2019en \u00e9tais pas la cause, que je ne pouvais pas le contr\u00f4ler et que je ne pouvais pas gu\u00e9rir l\u2019alcoolique. C\u2019\u00e9tait des mots que j\u2019avais d\u00e9sesp\u00e9r\u00e9ment besoin d\u2019entendre parce que je croyais que la consommation d\u2019alcool de mon fils \u00e9tait ma faute. Quand je pleurais, je me sentais un peu stupide, mais personne ne me jugeait. Bien au contraire, sans que je dise un seul mot, tout le monde semblait comprendre ma souffrance. Je n\u2019oublierai jamais le membre Al-Anon qui est venu me voir apr\u00e8s la r\u00e9union et m\u2019a dit\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Ici, vous \u00eates en s\u00e9curit\u00e9; vous \u00eates au bon endroit.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Karen D., Virginie<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[222],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4983","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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