{"id":4741,"date":"2016-06-01T14:53:33","date_gmt":"2016-06-01T18:53:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/al-anon.idevdesign.net\/?p=4741\/"},"modified":"2017-07-27T14:38:35","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T18:38:35","slug":"grace-al-anon-un-pere-apprend-que-lalcoolisme-est-un-mal-familial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/grace-al-anon-un-pere-apprend-que-lalcoolisme-est-un-mal-familial\/","title":{"rendered":"Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 Al-Anon, un p\u00e8re apprend que  l\u2019alcoolisme est un mal familial"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Par Dr Paul Shoenfeld, Psychologue clinicien<br \/>\nEverett, Washington<\/p>\n<p>Larry, un homme d\u2019\u00e2ge m\u00fbr, est assis dans mon bureau, en train de parler d\u2019Al\u2011Anon \u2013 pour les familles et les amis des alcooliques.<\/p>\n<p>Il me raconte son histoire : \u00ab J\u2019ai re\u00e7u un appel t\u00e9l\u00e9phonique de l\u2019\u00e9cole de mon fils quand Joey avait 14 ans. Il avait \u00e9t\u00e9 surpris en train de boire de l \u2019alcool \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cole avec ses copains. \u00c0 l\u2019\u00e9poque, je me suis dit : \u00ab Il faut bien que jeunesse se passe ! \u00bb et je n\u2019y ai plus pens\u00e9 apr\u00e8s cela. La progression de la maladie est lente ; aussi, j\u2019ai eu du mal \u00e0 la remarquer. Un peu plus tard, j\u2019ai re\u00e7u un appel m\u2019informant que Joey avait \u00e9t\u00e9 impliqu\u00e9 dans un accident de la route. Des probl\u00e8mes juridiques ont suivi et un traitement a \u00e9t\u00e9 ordonn\u00e9 par le tribunal&#8230; Bref, c\u2019\u00e9tait la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme sous toutes ses formes&#8230; J\u2019ai assist\u00e9 \u00e0 une r\u00e9union de famille au centre de r\u00e9habilitation o\u00f9 on m\u2019a sugg\u00e9r\u00e9 d\u2019aller \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon&#8230; Alors, c\u2019est ce que j\u2019ai fait ! Je suis un homme et si je ne peux pas aider mon fils, qui le fera ?\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Malheureusement, Joey est d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9, mais Larry veut que les autres parents sachent qu\u2019ils peuvent trouver de l\u2019aide. Je lui demande comment Al\u2011Anon l\u2019aide.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab J\u2019ai appris que l\u2019alcoolisme est une maladie. Mon fils n\u2019aimait pas que je le juge ou que je le r\u00e9primande quand il buvait. Je suis certain que Joey pensait que je ne l\u2019aimais plus, ou que je n\u2019avais plus aucun respect pour lui. Si je n\u2019avais pas \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon, nous aurions continu\u00e9 de nous quereller.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab J\u2019ai appris \u00e0 l\u2019accepter et \u00e0 lui donner le respect et la dignit\u00e9 de prendre ses propres d\u00e9cisions dans la vie \u2013 pour travailler, si possible, sur son propre r\u00e9tablissement. Mais cela \u00e9tait sa d\u00e9cision ; il fallait que je travaille sur ma propre gu\u00e9rison. Je savais que je cr\u00e9ais mes propres probl\u00e8mes. C\u2019est la raison pour laquelle, dans Al\u2011Anon, on dit que l\u2019alcoolisme est \u201cun mal familial\u201d.\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Al\u2011Anon fournit une communaut\u00e9 pour les membres de la famille qui ont du mal \u00e0 \u00e9tablir une relation aimante avec le membre de leur famille qui souffre de la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme et qui ont aussi des difficult\u00e9s \u00e0 ne pas devenir complices du comportement de l\u2019alcoolique \u2013 lequel est caus\u00e9 par la maladie. Les parents, les fr\u00e8res, les s\u0153urs et les enfants commencent \u00e0 r\u00e9aliser que la d\u00e9pendance \u00e0 l\u2019alcool n\u2019est pas un \u00e9chec moral ou un choix \u2013 pas plus qu\u2019une personne ne choisisse d\u2019avoir le cancer, l\u2019asthme, ou le diab\u00e8te. C\u2019est une condition avec laquelle leurs \u00eatres chers doivent vivre.<\/p>\n<p>Pendant notre discussion, je lui ai confi\u00e9 ma frustration en tant que sp\u00e9cialiste. Chaque ann\u00e9e, j\u2019encourage un grand nombre de membres de la famille \u00e0 assister \u00e0 des r\u00e9unions Al\u2011Anon, mais seul un petit nombre d\u2019entre eux suivent mon conseil.<\/p>\n<p>Larry a alors ajout\u00e9 : \u00ab Si vous songez \u00e0 aller \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon, allez\u2011y, et assistez \u00e0 un minimum de six r\u00e9unions avant de d\u00e9cider que ce n\u2019est pas pour vous ; pers\u00e9v\u00e9rez! Cela fait maintenant dix ans que je vais \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon. Cela ne repr\u00e9sente qu\u2019une heure, ou une heure et demie de votre journ\u00e9e. \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Al\u2011Anon aide les membres de la famille \u00e0 se r\u00e9tablir des cons\u00e9quences de la maladie et \u00e0 raviver l\u2019amour qu\u2019ils \u00e9prouvent pour le membre de leur famille qui souffre de la maladie.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[228],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4741","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-professionnels"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - 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