{"id":4630,"date":"2017-04-01T15:45:11","date_gmt":"2017-04-01T20:45:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/al-anon.idevdesign.net\/?p=4630\/"},"modified":"2017-07-27T12:03:09","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T16:03:09","slug":"de-la-colere-la-serenite-changer-moi-et-comprendre-les-autres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/de-la-colere-la-serenite-changer-moi-et-comprendre-les-autres\/","title":{"rendered":"De la col\u00e8re \u00e0 la s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 : me changer moi et comprendre les autres"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><div class=\"itemIntroText\">\n<p>Je suis all\u00e9 \u00e0 Al-Anon parce que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais tr\u00e8s en col\u00e8re envers un jeune alcoolique. Ce jeune homme est le fils de la femme que je fr\u00e9quente. Il lui rend la vie dure \u2013 et par cons\u00e9quent la mienne. Je voulais apprendre comment je pouvais le changer. Je voulais aussi comprendre ce que sa m\u00e8re vivait.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"itemFullText\">\n<p>Comme je voulais son bonheur, il fallait que je la change elle aussi.\u00c0 ma grande surprise, je n&rsquo;ai pas appris comment gu\u00e9rir l\u2019alcoolique qui faisait partie de notre vie. En fait, j\u2019ai appris que je n&rsquo;avais aucun contr\u00f4le sur l&rsquo;alcoolisme. Quel choc! Au moins, un bon coup de pied dans le derri\u00e8re devrait faire l\u2019affaire! Non seulement je ne pouvais pas contr\u00f4ler sa maladie, mais je ne pouvais pas contr\u00f4ler les r\u00e9actions de mon amie non plus. Je me demandais ce que je faisais \u00e0 cette r\u00e9union!<\/p>\n<p>Peut-\u00eatre \u00e9tait-ce la chaleur et la gentillesse des membres ou leurs commentaires remplis de sagesse qui m&rsquo;ont pouss\u00e9 \u00e0 revenir. J&rsquo;ai assist\u00e9 \u00e0 une r\u00e9union ouverte A.A. et j\u2019ai lu de la documentation Al-Anon. J\u2019ai pers\u00e9v\u00e9r\u00e9; je me suis rapidement trouv\u00e9 \u00e0 \u00e9couter et \u00e0 apprendre des autres membres du groupe.<\/p>\n<p>Au fil du temps, ma col\u00e8re envers l&rsquo;alcoolique s\u2019est dissip\u00e9e et j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 comprendre l&rsquo;angoisse existentielle de sa m\u00e8re. Je r\u00e9alise maintenant ce qui s&rsquo;\u00e9tait pass\u00e9. Je n&rsquo;\u00e9tais plus en train d&rsquo;essayer de changer ou de contr\u00f4ler d&rsquo;autres personnes. M\u00eame si je suis une \u0153uvre inachev\u00e9e, je suis moi-m\u00eame en mutation.<\/p>\n<p>Al-Anon m&rsquo;aide dans ma vie quotidienne, que ce soit dans le contexte du travail, les interactions sociales, ou l&rsquo;exp\u00e9rience douloureuse de la mort r\u00e9cente de mon fr\u00e8re. Al-Anon m&rsquo;a apport\u00e9 une nouvelle perspective sur la vie.<\/p>\n<p>En travaillant sur moi-m\u00eame, j&rsquo;ai \u00e9galement \u00e9t\u00e9 t\u00e9moin du changement favorable de mon amie. Nous assistons chacun \u00e0 notre propre r\u00e9union, et de retour chez nous, nous nous t\u00e9l\u00e9phonons et discutons des nouvelles perspectives que nous avons d\u00e9couvertes. C\u2019est une d\u00e9marche essentielle qui contribue \u00e0 une relation aimante o\u00f9 r\u00e8gne la confiance.<\/p>\n<p>Sur ce, mon premier anniversaire, je tiens \u00e0 vous faire part de mon admiration et je vous remercie tous pour vos pens\u00e9es, votre soutien, vos t\u00e9moignages et votre courage. Et oui, comme la Formule pour clore les r\u00e9unions l\u2019exprime si bien : j\u2019\u00e9prouve pour vous un attachement tr\u00e8s sp\u00e9cial.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Par John F., Indiana<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[222],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4630","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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