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Je pensais que si seulement je parvenais \u00e0 \u00e9loigner mon fils de ses \u00ab mauvais \u00bb amis, il retrouverait la raison et cesserait de boire et de consommer de la drogue. J\u2019ai pass\u00e9 plusieurs ann\u00e9es de ma vie \u00e0 essayer de le secourir de ses mauvais choix. C\u2019\u00e9tait comme s\u2019il \u00e9tait au bord d\u2019un pr\u00e9cipice sombre et sans fond; j\u2019essayais de l\u2019emp\u00eacher d\u2019y tomber, mais il me poussait \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cart. J\u2019\u00e9coutais discr\u00e8tement ses conversations, tout \u00e9tait motif pour le priver de sorties et je l\u2019\u00e9piais jour et nuit. Mes efforts \u00e9taient vains!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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J\u2019\u00e9tais \u00e0 bout de force. J\u2019avais perdu du poids et j\u2019\u00e9tais sur le point de perdre mon emploi. Je ne fr\u00e9quentais plus mes amis parce que je craignais qu\u2019ils ne me posent des questions sur mon fils. J\u2019\u00e9tais bien d\u00e9termin\u00e9e \u00e0 lui faire entendre raison. Mon obsession \u00e9tait sans bornes.Un jour, tard dans la soir\u00e9e (je dormais rarement \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9poque), j\u2019ai vu une voiture avancer dans l\u2019all\u00e9e de garage, tous feux \u00e9teints. Dans la p\u00e9nombre, j\u2019ai vu mon fils s\u2019approcher du v\u00e9hicule. Je suis sortie en trombe pour l\u2019emp\u00eacher de partir. Quand il m\u2019a vue, il est rapidement mont\u00e9 dans la voiture, puis ils sont partis \u00e0 toute allure. Simplement v\u00eatue de ma robe de chambre, j\u2019ai couru apr\u00e8s la voiture, leur criant de s\u2019arr\u00eater.<\/p>\n

N\u2019ayant pas mes lunettes, je n\u2019avais pas pu relever le num\u00e9ro de la plaque d\u2019immatriculation pour appeler la police. Je savais avec qui il \u00e9tait parce que j\u2019avais reconnu la couleur de la voiture. Je ne le voyais pas pendant plusieurs jours puis il rentrait lorsqu\u2019il n\u2019avait plus d\u2019argent.<\/p>\n

Cette sc\u00e8ne insens\u00e9e \u2013 et beaucoup d\u2019autres comme celle-ci \u2013 s\u2019\u00e9tait \u00ab r\u00e9p\u00e9t\u00e9e \u00bb.<\/p>\n

Apr\u00e8s l\u2019entr\u00e9e de mon fils dans un centre de traitement, on m\u2019a sugg\u00e9r\u00e9 d\u2019essayer les r\u00e9unions Al-Anon. J\u2019ai assist\u00e9 \u00e0 plusieurs r\u00e9unions. J\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 les appr\u00e9cier de plus en plus; il y avait tant de chaleur et de s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9. J\u2019ai fini par trouver un endroit o\u00f9 je pouvais me reposer et revitaliser mon esprit. M\u00eame en pr\u00e9sence de parfaits \u00e9trangers, je ressentais de l\u2019amour dans chaque r\u00e9union parce que nous avions une chose en commun : la vie dans le contexte de l\u2019alcoolisme.<\/p>\n

Mon fils a pris la d\u00e9cision de ne pas continuer AA. Il a pris un appartement \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e2ge de dix-huit ans. Nous restons en contact et notre relation demeure saine. Cela fait maintenant plus de deux ans que j\u2019assiste aux r\u00e9unions. J\u2019ai une Marraine et je lis quotidiennement la documentation Al-Anon. Je suis tr\u00e8s fi\u00e8re de mes progr\u00e8s. J\u2019ai d\u00e9couvert qui je suis vraiment gr\u00e2ce aux Douze \u00c9tapes. J\u2019ai aussi appris \u00e0 donner un amour inconditionnel \u00e0 mon fils.<\/p>\n

La semaine derni\u00e8re, il m\u2019a t\u00e9l\u00e9phon\u00e9 pour me demander si lui et ses amis pouvaient venir chez nous pour regarder un match de football. Il avait l\u2019air d\u2019\u00eatre en bonne sant\u00e9, alors j\u2019ai accept\u00e9. Nous avons cuisin\u00e9, jou\u00e9 au billard, regard\u00e9 la t\u00e9l\u00e9vision et jou\u00e9 au baseball. Au moment de partir, mon fils et ses amis nous ont embrass\u00e9s et serr\u00e9s dans leurs bras pour nous dire au revoir. Alors que leur voiture quittait l\u2019all\u00e9e de garage, j\u2019ai remarqu\u00e9 un cellulaire sur le canap\u00e9. Je l\u2019ai pris et je suis sortie en trombe pour rattraper la voiture, faisant des signes de la main et leur criant de s\u2019arr\u00eater. Ils sont sortis pour voir ce que je voulais et j\u2019ai failli \u00e9clater de rire en pensant que cette situation \u00e9tait du d\u00e9j\u00e0 vu. Au moins, cette fois-ci, je ne leur avais pas couru apr\u00e8s en robe de chambre.<\/p>\n

Par Caroline G., Kentucky<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>

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