{"id":4544,"date":"2017-01-30T13:38:52","date_gmt":"2017-01-30T19:38:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/al-anon.idevdesign.net\/?p=4544\/"},"modified":"2017-07-27T15:38:14","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T19:38:14","slug":"je-suis-descendu-du-bus-de-linquietude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/je-suis-descendu-du-bus-de-linquietude\/","title":{"rendered":"Je suis descendu du \u00abbus de l\u2019inqui\u00e9tude\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>\u00c0 l\u2019\u00e9poque o\u00f9 mon fils \u00e9tait dans le\u00a0secondaire, me donnant une multitude\u00a0de raisons de m\u2019inqui\u00e9ter, je passais\u00a0une grande partie de mon temps sur ce\u00a0que j\u2019appelais \u00ab le bus de l\u2019inqui\u00e9tude \u00bb.\u00a0C\u2019\u00e9tait un bus relativement large qui\u00a0pouvait contenir une grande partie des\u00a0membres de ma famille et de mes amis.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c0 l\u2019avant, il y avait une banni\u00e8re\u00a0montrant la destination, et celle-ci\u00a0pouvait changer en l\u2019espace d\u2019une\u00a0seconde. Nous avions l\u2019habitude de nous\u00a0\u00ab entasser \u00bb dans le train pour d\u00e9cider la\u00a0destination. Une premi\u00e8re destination\u00a0pouvait \u00eatre : \u00ab Finira-t-il six pieds sous\u00a0terre ou finira-t-il en prison? \u00bb Et nous\u00a0discutions de toutes ces possibilit\u00e9s dans\u00a0la plus profonde d\u00e9tresse.\u00a0Quand il se faisait arr\u00eater, la\u00a0destination de notre banni\u00e8re changeait\u00a0imm\u00e9diatement : \u00ab Se pr\u00e9senterat-il le jour de sa comparution? \u00bb, puis\u00a0\u00ab Acceptera-t-il la d\u00e9cision du juge? \u00bb,\u00a0et enfin : \u00ab Survivra-t-il en prison? \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Le bus n\u2019\u00e9tait jamais en retard,\u00a0et il y en avait toujours un autre si\u00a0je ratais le premier. Apr\u00e8s quelque\u00a0temps dans Al-Anon, j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9\u00a0\u00e0 mieux comprendre ce que signifiait\u00a0\u00ab se d\u00e9tacher avec amour \u00bb. J\u2019en suis arriv\u00e9\u00a0\u00e0 un point o\u00f9 j\u2019ai refus\u00e9 de prendre le bus.\u00a0Ma famille et mes amis se penchaient\u00a0en dehors des fen\u00eatres, compl\u00e8tement\u00a0atterr\u00e9s : \u00ab As-tu baiss\u00e9 les bras en ce qui\u00a0concerne ton fils? \u00bb, \u00ab Que se passe-t-il? \u00bb\u00a0Pourtant, plus que jamais, je ressentais\u00a0une grande dose d\u2019amour et de soutien\u00a0envers mon fils. J\u2019avais une clart\u00e9 d\u2019esprit\u00a0et une foi qui \u00e9taient g\u00e9rables, une\u00a0r\u00e9v\u00e9lation \u00e0 la fois.<\/p>\n<p>Sans mon \u00e9tat d\u2019inqui\u00e9tude constant,\u00a0je n\u2019avais plus l\u2019impression que mon\u00a0amour \u00e9tait dissous par des conditions\u00a0et des attentes. Au contraire, mon amour\u00a0\u00e9tait plus fort et \u00ab d\u00e9tach\u00e9 \u00bb. Cet amour\u00a0est devenu un cadeau qui avait plus de\u00a0valeur pour mon fils que l\u2019inqui\u00e9tude.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Par Kirk F., Californie<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum<\/em>, janvier 2017<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[222],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4544","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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