{"id":44349,"date":"2025-01-29T16:30:35","date_gmt":"2025-01-29T21:30:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=44349"},"modified":"2025-01-29T15:35:29","modified_gmt":"2025-01-29T20:35:29","slug":"mon-histoire-alateen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/mon-histoire-alateen\/","title":{"rendered":"Mon histoire Alateen"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Le moment o\u00f9 j&rsquo;ai remarqu\u00e9 que quelque chose n&rsquo;allait pas avec mes parents, c&rsquo;est quand j&rsquo;ai eu besoin d&rsquo;aide pour mes devoirs et que j&rsquo;ai demand\u00e9 \u00e0 mon p\u00e8re de le faire. Quand je me suis approch\u00e9e de lui, il avait une bi\u00e8re \u00e0 la main et il l&rsquo;a cach\u00e9e derri\u00e8re son dos en disant : \u00ab J&rsquo;arrive tout de suite \u00bb, tout en me repoussant. Je me suis demand\u00e9 <em>pourquoi il l&rsquo;avait cach\u00e9e derri\u00e8re son dos<\/em>. Je me suis sentie confuse et boulevers\u00e9e. Mes parents se disputaient \u00e0 cette \u00e9poque, et j&rsquo;avais trop peur de le dire \u00e0 ma m\u00e8re, car je pensais que cela d\u00e9clencherait une nouvelle guerre entre eux. Apr\u00e8s cela, je suis devenue celle qui r\u00e9glait les probl\u00e8mes. Je retenais toujours mes \u00e9motions pour essayer d&rsquo;apaiser les disputes entre mes parents et de maintenir la paix dans mon foyer.<\/p>\n<p>Quelque temps apr\u00e8s, ma m\u00e8re a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 fr\u00e9quenter les r\u00e9unions Al-Anon et \u00e9tait engag\u00e9e dans le programme depuis un an lorsque mon p\u00e8re est parti en cure de d\u00e9sintoxication. La veille, nos parents ont demand\u00e9 \u00e0 nous parler et mon p\u00e8re a admis qu&rsquo;il avait un probl\u00e8me d&rsquo;alcool. Au d\u00e9but, apr\u00e8s avoir entendu ce que mon p\u00e8re avait dit, je me suis sentie sans aucune \u00e9motion; je ne savais pas quoi ressentir. Le lendemain matin, mon p\u00e8re est parti et je me suis dit : \u00ab <em>Pourquoi est-ce que \u00e7a m&rsquo;arrive \u00e0 moi?<\/em>\u00a0\u00bb En regardant mon p\u00e8re partir, je me suis sentie accabl\u00e9e. C&rsquo;\u00e9tait il y a pr\u00e8s de trois ans.<\/p>\n<p>Lorsque ma m\u00e8re m&rsquo;a pr\u00e9sent\u00e9 Alateen, je pensais honn\u00eatement que ce serait tr\u00e8s ennuyeux. Je pensais que je n&rsquo;avais pas besoin d&rsquo;y aller, que j&rsquo;avais tout compris et que j&rsquo;allais bien. Avant Alateen, j&rsquo;avais l&rsquo;impression de ne pas pouvoir exprimer mes sentiments, qu&rsquo;il s&rsquo;agisse de tristesse, de col\u00e8re, d&rsquo;\u00e9motion, etc., mais apr\u00e8s avoir assist\u00e9 \u00e0 des r\u00e9unions et entendu que d&rsquo;autres membres avaient v\u00e9cu des exp\u00e9riences comme la mienne, je me suis sentie \u00e0 ma place. J&rsquo;avais le sentiment que les membres pouvaient comprendre ce que je ressentais, et j&rsquo;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que je n&rsquo;avais pas besoin de tout refouler pour que tout ait l&rsquo;air parfait de l&rsquo;ext\u00e9rieur. Quelques mois plus tard, nous avons d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de cr\u00e9er un groupe Alateen dans notre ville. Neuf mois se sont \u00e9coul\u00e9s depuis le d\u00e9but de notre r\u00e9union, et Alateen a eu un impact important sur ma vie, non seulement en ce qui concerne l&rsquo;alcoolisme, mais aussi l&rsquo;\u00e9cole et ma sant\u00e9 mentale.<\/p>\n<p>Les slogans sont tr\u00e8s importants pour moi. Les deux que je trouve les plus utiles sont \u00ab\u00a0Un jour \u00e0 la fois\u00a0\u00bb et \u00ab\u00a0L\u00e2chez prise et s\u2019en remettre \u00e0 Dieu\u00a0\u00bb. Ces slogans m&rsquo;aident \u00e0 prendre mon temps et \u00e0 ne me pr\u00e9occuper de personne d&rsquo;autre que moi. Je ne peux pas contr\u00f4ler les paroles ou les actions de quelqu&rsquo;un d&rsquo;autre, mais \u00e0 Alateen, j&rsquo;ai appris que je peux contr\u00f4ler les miennes. \u00ab\u00a0Un jour \u00e0 la fois\u00a0\u00bb me rappelle de rester dans le pr\u00e9sent, plut\u00f4t que de vivre dans le pass\u00e9 ou l&rsquo;avenir. Garder mes pens\u00e9es dans le pass\u00e9 ou l&rsquo;avenir ne me permet pas de profiter du temps que j&rsquo;ai maintenant, dans le pr\u00e9sent. Ces le\u00e7ons simples m&rsquo;aident \u00e0 me d\u00e9tacher des probl\u00e8mes des autres et \u00e0 me concentrer sur ma propre progression.<\/p>\n<p>Lorsque nous avons form\u00e9 notre groupe, nous avons d\u00e9cid\u00e9 d&rsquo;ouvrir nos r\u00e9unions aux membres \u00e2g\u00e9s de sept \u00e0 dix-huit ans. La plupart du temps, les membres de notre groupe ont entre neuf et quinze ans, mais m\u00eame lorsqu&rsquo;il y a des enfants de sept ans dans une r\u00e9union, ils ont de l&rsquo;exp\u00e9rience, de la force et de l&rsquo;espoir \u00e0 partager. Si, dans notre Circonscription, les r\u00e9unions Alateen restent peu nombreuses, j&rsquo;esp\u00e8re qu&rsquo;elles se d\u00e9velopperont \u00e0 mesure que les familles se souviendront que l&rsquo;alcoolisme est une maladie familiale et que tous les enfants peuvent b\u00e9n\u00e9ficier d&rsquo;un espace s\u00fbr o\u00f9 ils peuvent travailler ensemble sur leurs exp\u00e9riences.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Alicia<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>novembre 2024<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue\u00a0<em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginie, \u00c9tats-Unis.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - 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