{"id":4364,"date":"2016-10-27T14:28:09","date_gmt":"2016-10-27T19:28:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/al-anon.idevdesign.net\/?p=4364\/"},"modified":"2017-07-27T13:31:45","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T17:31:45","slug":"jai-appris-pratiquer-le-detachement-avec-amour-envers-mon-fils","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/jai-appris-pratiquer-le-detachement-avec-amour-envers-mon-fils\/","title":{"rendered":"J\u2019ai appris \u00e0 pratiquer le d\u00e9tachement avec amour envers mon fils"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>La premi\u00e8re fois que j\u2019ai entendu l\u2019expression \u00ab\u00a0d\u00e9tachement avec amour\u00a0\u00bb et \u00ab\u00a0r\u00f4le parental\u00a0\u00bb dans la m\u00eame phrase, j\u2019ai imm\u00e9diatement eu deux pens\u00e9es\u00a0: la premi\u00e8re que c\u2019\u00e9tait une bonne th\u00e9orie et la deuxi\u00e8me \u00e9tait que la personne qui avait cr\u00e9\u00e9 cette expression n\u2019avait pas d\u2019enfants. Comment un parent aimant pourrait-il pratiquer le d\u00e9tachement envers son enfant sachant qu\u2019il ou elle \u00e9tait en difficult\u00e9 ou souffrait?<\/p>\n<p>Aujourd\u2019hui, j\u2019ai une meilleure compr\u00e9hension de ce concept. \u00ab\u00a0D\u00e9tachement avec amour\u00a0\u00bb ne veut pas dire que je ne me soucie de mon enfant ou que je l\u2019abandonne; cela ne signifie pas que je ne l\u2019aime pas ou que je ne pense souvent \u00e0 lui. Cela ne signifie pas que je ne ressens pas de la tristesse ou de la d\u00e9ception quant \u00e0 son mode de vie. Je me contente simplement de me d\u00e9tacher de la terrible maladie contre laquelle il lutte depuis les cinq derni\u00e8res ann\u00e9es.<\/p>\n<p>Je me surprends encore \u00e0 m\u2019inqui\u00e9ter \u00e0 son sujet. Quand cela arrive, je me demande si je peux faire quelque chose de constructif. J\u2019ai appris \u00e0 faire confiance \u00e0 mon instinct. Quand sa maladie \u00e9tait en phase active, j\u2019ai dit \u00e0 mon fils qu\u2019il ne pouvait pas revenir \u00e0 la maison, mais qu\u2019il pouvait me t\u00e9l\u00e9phoner \u00e0 n\u2019importe quelle heure du jour et de la nuit et que je l\u2019accompagnerais pour aller chercher l\u2019aide dont il avait besoin. Quand il n\u2019avait plus acc\u00e8s \u00e0 un t\u00e9l\u00e9phone, je pr\u00eatais mon t\u00e9l\u00e9phone portable. Quand je fais tout mon possible pour \u00e9viter de lui faciliter la t\u00e2che, je \u00ab\u00a0l\u00e2che prise et je m\u2019en remets \u00e0 Dieu\u00a0\u00bb. Je prie pour que Dieu veille sur lui et le garde en s\u00e9curit\u00e9 pour moi.<\/p>\n<p>Aujourd\u2019hui, mon fils est sobre. Si en fin de journ\u00e9e, je n\u2019ai pas entendu le contraire, je me dis qu\u2019il a pass\u00e9 une bonne journ\u00e9e. \u00a0Ce n\u2019est pas la fa\u00e7on dont j\u2019imaginais la vie adulte de mon fils, mais j\u2019ai accept\u00e9 le fait que c\u2019est ma nouvelle r\u00e9alit\u00e9. Je remercie Dieu pour mes amis Al\u2011Anon, et je continue de vivre \u00ab\u00a0un jour \u00e0 la fois\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Debbie L., Minnesota<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, octobre 2016<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[222],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4364","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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