{"id":4360,"date":"2016-08-27T14:07:30","date_gmt":"2016-08-27T19:07:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/al-anon.idevdesign.net\/?p=4360\/"},"modified":"2017-07-27T13:35:39","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T17:35:39","slug":"aujourdhui-jaime-mon-fils-et-je-neprouve-aucun-ressentiment-envers-lui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/aujourdhui-jaime-mon-fils-et-je-neprouve-aucun-ressentiment-envers-lui\/","title":{"rendered":"Aujourd\u2019hui, j\u2019aime mon fils et je n\u2019\u00e9prouve aucun ressentiment envers lui"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Peu de temps apr\u00e8s le dix-huiti\u00e8me anniversaire de mon fils, il a annonc\u00e9 qu&rsquo;il d\u00e9m\u00e9nageait. Par son expression, je savais qu\u2019il fallait que j\u2019\u00e9vite de contester sa d\u00e9cision. Cela s\u2019est pass\u00e9 il y a 28\u00a0ans, et \u00e0 l&rsquo;exception de trois ou quatre moments tr\u00e8s brefs, il a refus\u00e9 de faire partie de ma vie. Pendant ses courtes visites, il faisait des ravages et comme \u00e7a, il disparaissait \u00e0 nouveau. \u00c0 l\u2019\u00e9poque, je n\u2019avais pas Al\u2011Anon et je me suis retrouv\u00e9e plong\u00e9e dans le doute, la peur et la honte. C\u2019\u00e9tait l&rsquo;agonie! En tant que m\u00e8res, nous avons tendance \u00e0 nous attacher et c\u2019est dans Al\u2011Anon que j\u2019ai trouv\u00e9 le courage, la force et la sagesse de me d\u00e9tacher du comportement inacceptable de mon fils.<\/p>\n<p>C\u2019est un miracle qui m\u2019a men\u00e9e vers Al-Anon o\u00f9, tr\u00e8s progressivement, j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 mettre le programme en pratique avec une Marraine. Plus j&rsquo;apprenais, plus je voulais apprendre, et plus je pers\u00e9v\u00e9rais. En cons\u00e9quence, j\u2019ai re\u00e7u des directives pour mener une vie \u00e9quilibr\u00e9e et une \u00ab\u00a0bo\u00eete \u00e0 outils\u00a0\u00bb pleine \u00e0 craquer, remplie de tous les outils dont je pouvais avoir besoin pour me tenir \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e9cart des probl\u00e8mes et qui pouvaient m\u2019aider \u00e0 trouver les solutions \u00e0 n\u2019importe quel probl\u00e8me.<\/p>\n<p>Il y a deux semaines de cela, apr\u00e8s sept ans, mon fils m\u2019a contact\u00e9e par courriel. Son ton \u00e9tait plut\u00f4t froid, ses paroles me laissaient entendre qu&rsquo;il voulait que nous ayons une bonne relation. Optimiste, mais prudente, je lui ai simplement r\u00e9pondu que j\u2019\u00e9tais d\u2019accord avec lui. Cependant, son troisi\u00e8me courriel a r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 ses v\u00e9ritables intentions et en cons\u00e9quence directe de ma mise en pratique des \u00c9tapes, j\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 capable d\u2019accepter la v\u00e9rit\u00e9. J\u2019\u00e9tais heureuse d&rsquo;apprendre qu&rsquo;il \u00e9tait en bonne sant\u00e9 et je me r\u00e9jouissais de r\u00e9tablir une bonne relation, mais apr\u00e8s avoir re\u00e7u ce courriel cribl\u00e9 de pr\u00e9somptions et de conditions, je ne voyais vraiment pas comment cela serait possible.<\/p>\n<p>Aujourd&rsquo;hui, gr\u00e2ce aux principes Al-Anon, je suis capable de l&rsquo;aimer tel qu\u2019il est, sans ressentiment. Al-Anon m&rsquo;a aussi donn\u00e9 la clart\u00e9 de reconna\u00eetre les risques pour mon bien-\u00eatre. Aujourd&rsquo;hui, avec l&rsquo;aide de ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure, je suis pr\u00eate \u00e0 faire ce que je dois.<\/p>\n<p>Eh bien voil\u00e0! En faisant confiance \u00e0 ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure et sachant que l\u2019avenir nous r\u00e9serve toujours des surprises, quelques jours plus tard, j\u2019ai re\u00e7u une r\u00e9ponse qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 beaucoup plus chaleureuse et incluait m\u00eame une excuse. Ceci est une premi\u00e8re, et un v\u00e9ritable miracle!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Rosemary B., Arizona<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, ao\u00fbt 2016<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"right\"><em><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"right\"><em><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Times New Roman;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - 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