{"id":43071,"date":"2024-08-23T15:22:48","date_gmt":"2024-08-23T19:22:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=43071"},"modified":"2024-08-23T15:22:48","modified_gmt":"2024-08-23T19:22:48","slug":"le-moi-que-javais-perdu-puis-retrouve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/le-moi-que-javais-perdu-puis-retrouve\/","title":{"rendered":"Le moi que j\u2019avais perdu\u2026 puis retrouv\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>J&rsquo;\u00e9tais d\u00e9pendante de mon fils.<\/p>\n<p>Cette prise de conscience a \u00e9t\u00e9 pour moi un d\u00e9cisif. Pendant des ann\u00e9es, je n&rsquo;ai pas r\u00e9ussi \u00e0 s\u00e9parer mon fils de sa maladie. Je pensais que je devais simplement \u00ab\u00a0r\u00e9gler\u00a0\u00bb ses probl\u00e8mes de sant\u00e9 mentale, mais aujourd&rsquo;hui, je r\u00e9alise qu&rsquo;il est alcoolique et que j&rsquo;ai jou\u00e9 un r\u00f4le majeur dans la maladie familiale. Je travaille avec ma Marraine Al-Anon et lorsque je l&rsquo;ai rencontr\u00e9e r\u00e9cemment, j&rsquo;ai compris que mon fils \u00e9tait <em>ma<\/em> d\u00e9pendance. J&rsquo;ai appris que les alcooliques sont d\u00e9pendants de l&rsquo;alcool et que je suis d\u00e9pendante des gens. Je n&rsquo;avais aucune id\u00e9e que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais \u00e0 ce point d\u00e9pendante de mon fils.<\/p>\n<p>Pendant des ann\u00e9es, je me suis inqui\u00e9t\u00e9e \u00e0 son sujet, me demandant constamment s&rsquo;il \u00e9tait en prison ou s&rsquo;il conduisait en \u00e9tat d&rsquo;\u00e9bri\u00e9t\u00e9 et blessait quelqu&rsquo;un ou se blessait lui-m\u00eame. Lui rappeler de se rendre \u00e0 ses rendez-vous au tribunal et d&rsquo;appeler son agent de probation \u00e9tait tellement \u00e9puisant. Il venait chez moi et vomissait parce qu&rsquo;il avait bu la veille. Tout cela m&rsquo;a bris\u00e9 le c\u0153ur et je me suis perdue dans le processus.<\/p>\n<p>Mon fils a maintenant bient\u00f4t 20 ans et j&rsquo;essaie de me rappeler qui je suis. Avec cette nouvelle r\u00e9v\u00e9lation \u2013 que je suis d\u00e9pendante de mon fils \u2013 j&rsquo;ai l&rsquo;occasion de me r\u00e9tablir. Je suis en train de red\u00e9couvrir ce que j&rsquo;aime et ce qui me rend heureuse et \u00e9panouie. C&rsquo;est un peu effrayant, mais je sais que je vais progresser en vivant un jour \u00e0 la fois et en me concentrant sur moi-m\u00eame. J&rsquo;apprends \u00e0 me retenir de v\u00e9rifier s&rsquo;il va bien, et j&rsquo;essaie d&rsquo;apprendre \u00e0 me surveiller pour voir si <em>je<\/em> vais bien et d\u00e9terminer ce dont j&rsquo;ai besoin.<\/p>\n<p>Je suis tellement reconnaissante au programme Al-Anon, aux membres qui participent aux r\u00e9unions et \u00e0 ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure d&rsquo;\u00eatre les guides de mon r\u00e9tablissement. En me d\u00e9tachant, en fixant des limites et en me concentrant sur moi-m\u00eame, je donne \u00e0 mon fils la possibilit\u00e9 d\u2019assumer ses responsabilit\u00e9s. Je l&rsquo;ai vu faire preuve d&rsquo;un peu de maturit\u00e9 et il a maintenant l&rsquo;occasion de se d\u00e9couvrir lui-m\u00eame selon le rythme de sa Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure.<\/p>\n<p>J&rsquo;apprends \u00e0 \u00ab\u00a0l\u00e2cher prise et m\u2019en remettre \u00e0 Dieu\u00a0\u00bb, et j&rsquo;ai h\u00e2te de me retrouver!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Anna C.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, ao\u00fbt 2024<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>VOUS POUVEZ reproduire cet article sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginie, \u00c9tats-Unis.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - 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