{"id":42529,"date":"2024-06-20T14:58:08","date_gmt":"2024-06-20T18:58:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=42529"},"modified":"2024-06-20T14:58:08","modified_gmt":"2024-06-20T18:58:08","slug":"le-bon-moment-pour-se-retablir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/le-bon-moment-pour-se-retablir\/","title":{"rendered":"Le bon moment pour se r\u00e9tablir"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>\u00ab\u00a0Quel est le bon moment?\u00a0\u00bb Cette question m&rsquo;a \u00e9t\u00e9 pos\u00e9e r\u00e9cemment lors d&rsquo;une r\u00e9union par un jeune homme qui se sentait perdu et confus face \u00e0 l&rsquo;alcoolisme de sa conjointe et qui s&rsquo;\u00e9tait tourn\u00e9 vers Al-Anon comme dernier espoir. Cette question m&rsquo;a rappel\u00e9 l&rsquo;\u00e9poque o\u00f9 j&rsquo;avais envisag\u00e9 le divorce et o\u00f9 je m&rsquo;\u00e9tais demand\u00e9 quel \u00e9tait le bon moment pour le faire. En me rappelant mes propres \u00e9motions brutes et en comprenant \u00e0 quel point la vie peut devenir incontr\u00f4lable lorsqu&rsquo;on vit au contact de la maladie de l&rsquo;alcoolisme, j&rsquo;ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de m&rsquo;asseoir et de parler avec lui. Apr\u00e8s quelques larmes et un poing serr\u00e9, il a l\u00e2ch\u00e9 prise en respirant profond\u00e9ment et m&rsquo;a racont\u00e9 ce qui se passait chez lui.<\/p>\n<p>Je suis toujours \u00e9tonn\u00e9 d&rsquo;entendre des \u00e9chos de ma propre histoire dans celle des autres. J&rsquo;ai racont\u00e9 que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais mari\u00e9 depuis plus de 40 ans et que, pendant la plus grande partie de notre mariage, ma conjointe et moi avions tous deux ni\u00e9 qu\u2019il y avait un probl\u00e8me d&rsquo;alcool. Lorsque j&rsquo;ai rejoint Al-Anon, j&rsquo;ai finalement admis que ma conjointe avait un probl\u00e8me d&rsquo;alcool et j&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 me demander si c&rsquo;\u00e9tait le bon moment.<\/p>\n<p>Par la gr\u00e2ce de Dieu, les membres aux r\u00e9unions m&rsquo;ont tous encourag\u00e9 \u00e0 ralentir, \u00e0 ne pas prendre de grandes d\u00e9cisions et \u00e0 continuer \u00e0 assister aux r\u00e9unions. Pourrais-je vraiment faire cela? En \u00e9tais-je capable? Mais toutes les questions que je me posais ont trouv\u00e9 une r\u00e9ponse au fur et \u00e0 mesure que j&rsquo;assistais aux r\u00e9unions. J&rsquo;ai pris le th\u00e9 avec d&rsquo;autres membres et j&rsquo;ai \u00e9cout\u00e9 leur exp\u00e9rience, leur force et leur espoir. J&rsquo;ai lu la documentation Al-Anon et, surtout, j&rsquo;ai trouv\u00e9 un Parrain.<\/p>\n<p>J&rsquo;ai d\u00e9couvert que le parcours de ma conjointe \u00e9tait le sien, et que mon parcours vers ce qui \u00e9tait le mieux pour moi \u00e9tait le mien. Ma d\u00e9cision quant au \u00ab\u00a0bon moment\u00a0\u00bb d\u00e9pendrait de la poursuite ou non de la consommation d&rsquo;alcool par ma conjointe. J&rsquo;ai racont\u00e9 mon histoire au jeune homme, en m&rsquo;identifiant \u00e0 ses peurs, \u00e0 ses malentendus et \u00e0 sa col\u00e8re irr\u00e9fl\u00e9chie. J&rsquo;ai ensuite expliqu\u00e9 comment le fait de suivre les \u00c9tapes m&rsquo;avait apport\u00e9 le soulagement, l&rsquo;amour et la s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Al-Anon m&rsquo;a permis de faire une pause. Le programme m&rsquo;a donn\u00e9 le temps de comprendre la maladie de l&rsquo;alcoolisme et ma propre maladie\u00a0: le d\u00e9ni. Il m&rsquo;a donn\u00e9 le temps de prendre conscience et d&rsquo;accepter ma conjointe. Alors, quel est le bon moment? Vous seul pouvez en d\u00e9cider.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Sam E.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, juin 2024<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginie, \u00c9tats-Unis.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,220,225],"tags":[660,663],"class_list":["post-42529","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique","tag-deni","tag-divorce-fr"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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