{"id":42088,"date":"2024-04-25T14:47:25","date_gmt":"2024-04-25T18:47:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=42088"},"modified":"2024-04-29T12:59:13","modified_gmt":"2024-04-29T16:59:13","slug":"trouver-la-compassion-lempathie-et-la-famille-dans-alateen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/trouver-la-compassion-lempathie-et-la-famille-dans-alateen\/","title":{"rendered":"Trouver la compassion, l&#8217;empathie et la famille dans Alateen"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Ma m\u00e8re est alcoolique. Elle l\u2019est depuis le jour de ma naissance, mais nous avons connu une p\u00e9riode de calme qui a dur\u00e9 jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce que j\u2019aie quatre ou cinq ans. Je me souviens de m\u2019\u00eatre blottie avec elle sur le canap\u00e9 sous notre couverture sp\u00e9ciale pour regarder des films. Mes parents \u00e9taient heureux ensemble, et j\u2019\u00e9tais heureuse avec eux.<\/p>\n<p>Les choses se sont d\u00e9t\u00e9rior\u00e9es, et bon nombre d\u2019incidents se sont produits, mais je n\u2019ai jamais pens\u00e9 que je verrais le jour o\u00f9 je perdrais ma m\u00e8re pour toujours. Pourtant, ce jour-l\u00e0 est venu lorsque j\u2019avais huit ans. En rentrant de l\u2019\u00e9cole, j\u2019ai trouv\u00e9 ma m\u00e8re inconsciente sur les escaliers, la t\u00eate en sang.<\/p>\n<p>Mon p\u00e8re m\u2019a expliqu\u00e9 que personne ne faisait de mal \u00e0 ma m\u00e8re, qu\u2019elle s\u2019infligeait elle-m\u00eame cette douleur. Comme j\u2019\u00e9tais enfant, bien s\u00fbr, je me suis demand\u00e9 si c\u2019\u00e9tait ma faute. Je me suis demand\u00e9 ce que j\u2019avais fait de mal pour m\u00e9riter cela. Qu\u2019aurais-je pu faire diff\u00e9remment? Quand ces questions sont devenues si intenses que je pleurais dans les bras de mon p\u00e8re et que chaque larme \u00e9tait parce que je me sentais responsable, il a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 que j\u2019avais besoin de soutien. Nous en avions tous les deux besoin depuis des ann\u00e9es.<\/p>\n<p>Nous nous sommes donc rendus \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon et \u00e0 Alateen. Quand je dis qu\u2019Alateen m\u2019a sauv\u00e9e, ce n\u2019est pas une exag\u00e9ration. Je ne pense pas que je serais l\u00e0 o\u00f9 je suis aujourd\u2019hui sans Alateen. Du haut de mes huit ans, je suis entr\u00e9e dans cette salle remplie d\u2019adolescents et j\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 accept\u00e9e \u00e0 bras grands ouverts. J\u2019\u00e9tais mature pour mon \u00e2ge parce que j\u2019avais constamment eu \u00e0 me d\u00e9brouiller seule et \u00e0 m\u2019entretenir avec les policiers, mais j\u2019\u00e9tais beaucoup plus jeune que les autres membres.<\/p>\n<p>Cela ne les d\u00e9rangeait pas; j\u2019\u00e9tais une autre enfant avec des parents alcooliques, cherchant de l\u2019aide. Ils m\u2019ont pris par la main. Lorsque ma m\u00e8re a \u00e9t\u00e9 retir\u00e9e de la maison pour un internement involontaire (\u00e9valuation et traitement d\u2019urgence pour les personnes qui pr\u00e9sentent un danger pour elles-m\u00eames ou pour autrui en raison d\u2019une maladie mentale), Alateen m\u2019a guid\u00e9e tout au long de cette \u00e9preuve.<\/p>\n<p>Les membres Alateen m\u2019ont fait comprendre que je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas la seule enfant au monde \u00e0 vivre dans le contexte de l\u2019alcoolisme. J\u2019avais ressenti cette solitude pendant des ann\u00e9es, alors entendre une bonne dizaine de personnes parler de leurs exp\u00e9riences m\u2019a expos\u00e9e pour la premi\u00e8re \u00e0 l\u2019empathie. Ne pas avoir ma m\u00e8re dans ma vie \u00e9tait dur, mais j\u2019avais trouv\u00e9 mon monde. Ces gens me comprenaient comme personne d\u2019autre ne pouvait le faire, pas m\u00eame mon p\u00e8re, qui a, lui aussi, fini par sombrer dans l\u2019alcoolisme.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai lutt\u00e9 dur pendant des ann\u00e9es. Il n\u2019y avait rien de stable pour moi. C\u2019\u00e9tait comme si personne ne restait jamais, mais Alateen a toujours \u00e9t\u00e9 l\u00e0\u2026 Toujours.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Lila<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, mars 2024<\/em><\/p>\n<p>*<em>Publi\u00e9 sous le titre \u00ab Alateen est toujours l\u00e0 pour moi \u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue\u00a0<em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginie, \u00c9tats-Unis.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[237,347,221],"tags":[437,604,605,517],"class_list":["post-42088","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-adolescents-alateen","category-le-lien","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique","tag-blame-fr","tag-compassion-fr","tag-isole","tag-nouveaux-venus"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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