{"id":41295,"date":"2024-02-29T10:06:38","date_gmt":"2024-02-29T15:06:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=41295"},"modified":"2024-03-06T16:14:18","modified_gmt":"2024-03-06T21:14:18","slug":"retirer-la-couche-douillette-du-nid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/retirer-la-couche-douillette-du-nid\/","title":{"rendered":"Retirer la couche douillette du nid"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Quand une maman aigle construit son nid, elle choisit comme mat\u00e9riaux de base de grosses branches et des \u00e9pines pointues. Elle tapisse ensuite son nid de couches de plumes, de fourrure et de mousse pour le rendre confortable et s\u00e9curitaire pour ses \u0153ufs et, par la suite, pour ses aiglons. Au fil du temps, \u00e0 mesure que les petits grandissent, elle commence \u00e0 enlever les couches douillettes, exposant les aiglons aux \u00e9pines pointues. Le nid devient inconfortable au point o\u00f9 les aiglons en ont assez et sont pr\u00eats \u00e0 voler de leurs propres ailes. La maman aigle sait instinctivement que plus le nid reste confortable, plus les aiglons restent longtemps et ne sortent pas seuls.<\/p>\n<p>Dans le programme Al\u2011Anon, j\u2019ai appris que plus je d\u00e9ployais d\u2019efforts pour prot\u00e9ger mon proche et tenter de r\u00e9gler les probl\u00e8mes, plus je rendais le \u00ab\u00a0nid\u00a0\u00bb douillet. En fin de compte, par ma complicit\u00e9, je ne faisais qu\u2019aggraver la situation \u00e0 long terme. Je ne donnais pas \u00e0 mon proche la dignit\u00e9 de trouver son r\u00e9tablissement. En m\u00eame temps, je ressentais un certain niveau de r\u00e9confort \u00e0 essayer de le prot\u00e9ger et de le contr\u00f4ler. Il va sans dire que ce r\u00e9confort me procurait un faux sentiment de r\u00e9alit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Avec le temps, gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 mon r\u00e9tablissement Al\u2011Anon, j\u2019ai pris conscience de beaucoup de choses. J\u2019ai compris que je n\u2019avais pas caus\u00e9, ne pouvais pas contr\u00f4ler et ne pouvais pas gu\u00e9rir la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme. Je pouvais, cependant, y contribuer par l\u2019entremise de ma complicit\u00e9 nourrie par l\u2019amour et la peur. J\u2019ai compris l\u2019importance de la Premi\u00e8re \u00c9tape\u00a0: que je suis impuissante face \u00e0 la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme, tout comme je le suis face aux gens, aux lieux, aux choses et aux situations.<\/p>\n<p>Une fois que j\u2019ai laiss\u00e9 le champ libre \u00e0 mon \u00eatre cher, j\u2019ai pu me concentrer davantage sur moi-m\u00eame et moins sur lui, ce qui lui a permis d\u2019assumer la responsabilit\u00e9 de sa personne lorsqu\u2019il a \u00e9t\u00e9 dispos\u00e9 et capable. Tout comme la maman aigle, j\u2019ai compris que mon proche devait avancer par lui-m\u00eame, et je suis devenu pr\u00eat \u00e0 me d\u00e9tacher avec amour.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Mike S., Floride<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>janvier 2024<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginie, \u00c9tats-Unis.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,224,220,225,222,223,221,226],"tags":[527],"class_list":["post-41295","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-amie-alcoolique","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique","category-mon-frerema-soeur-alcoolique","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique","category-mon-petit-filsma-petite-fille-vit-avec-une-personne-alcoolique","tag-detachment-fr"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - 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