{"id":40288,"date":"2023-10-12T15:27:41","date_gmt":"2023-10-12T19:27:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=40288"},"modified":"2023-10-12T15:27:41","modified_gmt":"2023-10-12T19:27:41","slug":"repondre-a-la-maladie-de-lalcoolisme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/repondre-a-la-maladie-de-lalcoolisme\/","title":{"rendered":"R\u00e9pondre \u00e0 la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>J\u2019ai eu de la difficult\u00e9 \u00e0 comprendre que l\u2019alcoolisme est une maladie. Je crois que c\u2019est vrai, mais parfois c\u2019est difficile pour moi de m\u2019y faire. Le plus dur \u00e0 accepter est le comportement qu\u2019engendre l\u2019alcoolisme. Je comprends que la chimie du cerveau change et que la personne perd le contr\u00f4le de son cerveau, mais j\u2019ai toujours pens\u00e9 que le comportement faisait partie de la volont\u00e9, c\u2019est-\u00e0-dire qu\u2019une personne choisit de son gr\u00e9 de mentir, de voler, d\u2019agir violemment et de s\u2019engager dans tous les autres comportements qui rendent l\u2019alcoolisme trop difficile \u00e0 supporter.<\/p>\n<p>Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon et \u00e0 la th\u00e9rapie, j\u2019ai appris que ces comportements d\u00e9coulent de l\u2019alcoolisme. Tous les comportements horribles qui m\u2019effrayaient au plus profond de mon \u00e2me provenaient de l\u2019alcool. Dans les r\u00e9unions, je vois des gens hocher la t\u00eate en signe d\u2019approbation lorsque quelqu\u2019un parle des comportements, et \u00e7a m\u2019\u00e9pate. C\u2019est comme s\u2019il y avait un manuel que les alcooliques suivent. Il n\u2019y a pas de doute que c\u2019est l\u2019alcoolisme! Quelle autre explication pourrait-il y avoir \u00e0 la similitude des comportements de toutes ces personnes qui partagent cette maladie, mais qui ne se connaissent pas ou n\u2019interagissent pas?<\/p>\n<p>Cela dit, je comprends qu\u2019il reste une partie relevant de la responsabilit\u00e9 et des choix, et du fait que mon proche alcoolique g\u00e8re ou non sa maladie. Applique-t-il son programme et prend-il des d\u00e9cisions qui soutiendront son r\u00e9tablissement? Cette partie rel\u00e8ve de sa volont\u00e9, mais elle est aussi li\u00e9e au contr\u00f4le. <em>Il<\/em> peut faire ces choix, pas <em>moi<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Le fait de comprendre cette d\u00e9claration change la fa\u00e7on dont je traite avec mon proche alcoolique. Comprendre que l\u2019alcoolisme est une maladie m\u2019aide \u00e0 g\u00e9rer ma col\u00e8re, ce qui me permet d\u2019\u00e9prouver de la sympathie et de la compassion pour lui. Personne, y compris l\u2019alcoolique, ne veut souffrir de cette maladie, pas plus que quelqu\u2019un ne voudrait le cancer.<\/p>\n<p>Alors, cette prise de conscience a-t-elle chang\u00e9 <em>mes<\/em> actions? Je peux comprendre et soutenir mon alcoolique, mais j\u2019ai appris \u00e0 m\u2019arr\u00eater quand je commence \u00e0 en souffrir les cons\u00e9quences. Je le soutiendrai quand il travaillera sur son r\u00e9tablissement, mais je me d\u00e9tacherai s\u2019il choisit de ne pas g\u00e9rer son r\u00e9tablissement ou d\u2019ignorer ses sympt\u00f4mes. Je l\u2019aimerai et le soutiendrai quand il mettra son r\u00e9tablissement au premier plan, et je prendrai toutes les mesures qui s\u2019imposent pour lui permettre de le faire. Je ne peux cependant pas m\u2019approprier sa maladie.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Kim M., Illinois<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>octobre 2023<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,224,220,225,222,223,221],"tags":[527,435],"class_list":["post-40288","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-amie-alcoolique","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique","category-mon-frerema-soeur-alcoolique","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique","tag-detachment-fr","tag-en-colere"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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