{"id":40284,"date":"2023-10-12T14:21:14","date_gmt":"2023-10-12T18:21:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=40284"},"modified":"2024-05-07T16:28:36","modified_gmt":"2024-05-07T20:28:36","slug":"letape-avant-les-etapes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/letape-avant-les-etapes\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u2019\u00c9tape avant les \u00c9tapes"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>J\u2019ai assist\u00e9 aux r\u00e9unions Al\u2011Anon de mani\u00e8re sporadique pendant au moins 20\u00a0ans. Ma routine allait comme suit\u00a0: une crise \u00e9clatait avec l\u2019un des alcooliques de ma vie, et je me pr\u00e9sentais \u00e0 une r\u00e9union avec l\u2019espoir de trouver de nouvelles tactiques pour traiter les probl\u00e8mes de l\u2019alcoolique. Une fois la crise r\u00e9gl\u00e9e, je trouvais des excuses pour ne pas aller aux r\u00e9unions, et le cycle recommen\u00e7ait.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019imagine que j\u2019ai d\u00fb manquer ce que certains membres appellent l\u2019\u00c9tape Z\u00e9ro\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Revenez!\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Pour quelque raison que ce soit, cette fois-ci semble diff\u00e9rente. Je m\u2019aper\u00e7ois que le programme est con\u00e7u pour m\u2019aider \u00e0 changer <em>mes<\/em> comportements, <em>mes<\/em> r\u00e9actions et <em>mes<\/em> r\u00e9ponses. Point final. Peut-\u00eatre que ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure m\u2019a finalement donn\u00e9 \u00ab\u00a0la sagesse de conna\u00eetre la diff\u00e9rence\u00a0\u00bb entre ce qui est sous mon contr\u00f4le et ce qui ne l\u2019est pas. Une chose est certaine\u00a0: je peux voir que selon ma d\u00e9finition, \u00ab\u00a0l\u2019amour\u00a0\u00bb \u00e9tait offert avec bon nombre de conditions.<\/p>\n<p>L\u2019alcoolique qui me pr\u00e9occupe le plus \u00e0 ce stade de ma vie est ma fille adulte. J\u2019ai pass\u00e9 la majeure partie de sa vie adulte \u00e0 la supplier, la menacer et la manipuler pour essayer de l\u2019amener \u00e0 \u00e9couter et adopter les solutions que j\u2019avais pour sa vie. \u00catre coinc\u00e9e dans ce cycle d\u2019interaction m\u2019a laiss\u00e9e m\u00e9fiante envers tout ce qu\u2019elle me disait et lui a donn\u00e9 un sentiment d\u2019inf\u00e9riorit\u00e9 en raison de mes discours sur la fa\u00e7on dont elle pourrait prendre sa vie en main en suivant ma feuille de route.<\/p>\n<p>Aujourd\u2019hui, je pratique le d\u00e9tachement avec amour. Pendant longtemps, j\u2019ai la connivence pour de l\u2019amour. Je vois comment ce programme peut m\u2019aider \u00e0 examiner mes propres comportements et intentions de fa\u00e7on distante et lucide, mais je comprends d\u00e9sormais que ce programme commence par l\u2019\u00c9tape Z\u00e9ro. Je dois continuer \u00e0 pers\u00e9v\u00e9rer dans le programme.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Leah K., Caroline du Nord<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>septembre 2023<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,222],"tags":[564,652],"class_list":["post-40284","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique","tag-mon-enfant-alcoolique","tag-prise-de-conscience"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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