{"id":39882,"date":"2023-08-21T16:35:20","date_gmt":"2023-08-21T20:35:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=39882"},"modified":"2023-08-22T16:06:29","modified_gmt":"2023-08-22T20:06:29","slug":"apres-un-incident-douloureux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/apres-un-incident-douloureux\/","title":{"rendered":"Apr\u00e8s un incident douloureux\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Mon mari et moi avons r\u00e9cemment assist\u00e9 au mariage de notre fille, o\u00f9 les invit\u00e9s ont commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 boire le matin et ont continu\u00e9 toute la journ\u00e9e et toute la soir\u00e9e. C\u2019\u00e9tait une c\u00e9r\u00e9monie magnifique, pour laquelle aucune d\u00e9pense n\u2019avait \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e9pargn\u00e9e, mais \u00e0 la fin de la soir\u00e9e, notre fille \u00e9tait compl\u00e8tement ivre. L\u2019alcoolisme est r\u00e9pandu des deux c\u00f4t\u00e9s de notre famille, il n\u2019est donc pas surprenant qu\u2019il fasse son apparition dans la g\u00e9n\u00e9ration de nos enfants, mais c\u2019\u00e9tait la premi\u00e8re fois que nous pouvions le voir de face. C\u2019\u00e9tait la premi\u00e8re fois que mon mari et moi voyions notre fille aussi ivre.<\/p>\n<p>Dieu merci, j\u2019ai particip\u00e9 aux <a href=\"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/reunions-al-anon\/\"><strong>r\u00e9unions Al-Anon<\/strong> <\/a>en personne et par t\u00e9l\u00e9phone, car toute ma vie a \u00e9t\u00e9 affect\u00e9e par la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme, et voir des gens ivres lors de ce type d\u2019\u00e9v\u00e9nements me blesse et m\u2019effraie profond\u00e9ment. Cette grande soir\u00e9e n\u2019a pas fait exception. J\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 tr\u00e8s heureuse lors de la c\u00e9r\u00e9monie et de la r\u00e9ception qui a suivi, au cours de laquelle mon mari a rendu un magnifique hommage \u00e0 notre fille et \u00e0 d\u2019autres membres de la famille, mais mon euphorie a \u00e9t\u00e9 an\u00e9antie par l\u2019ivresse dont j\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 t\u00e9moin. Cette nuit-l\u00e0, j\u2019ai pleur\u00e9 jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce que je m\u2019endorme remplie d\u2019un sentiment de perte.<\/p>\n<p>Je veux \u00eatre une personne stable, peu importe ce qui se passe autour de moi, sans \u00eatre ballot\u00e9e par les vents de ce que les autres font ou ne font pas. Dans Al-Anon, j\u2019ai appris que je n\u2019ai aucun pouvoir sur la consommation d\u2019alcool des autres. Je n\u2019ai pas caus\u00e9 la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme, je ne peux pas la contr\u00f4ler et n\u2019en connais pas la cure. Al-Anon est un programme spirituel qui me permet de savoir qu\u2019il est normal de ressentir le d\u00e9go\u00fbt, la peur, la col\u00e8re, l\u2019embarras et la d\u00e9ception que j\u2019ai \u00e9prouv\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>Dans les jours qui ont suivi cet incident douloureux, j\u2019ai doubl\u00e9 le nombre de mes r\u00e9unions, lu de la <a href=\"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/pour-les-membres\/ressources-pour-les-membres\/documentation\/litterature-al-anon-et-alateen\/\"><strong>Documentation Approuv\u00e9e par la Conf\u00e9rence<\/strong><\/a>, pri\u00e9 pour la paix et appel\u00e9 ma Marraine. J\u2019ai \u00e9galement appel\u00e9 une autre membre Al\u2011Anon, j\u2019ai tenu un journal, j\u2019ai fait la sieste, j\u2019ai bien mang\u00e9 et j\u2019ai imagin\u00e9 les grandes mains de Dieu Qui me tenaient, moi et ma douleur. Tout cela m\u2019a aid\u00e9e. Cette exp\u00e9rience m\u2019a \u00e9galement permis de comprendre que je devais me concentrer sur moi-m\u00eame, assister \u00e0 90 r\u00e9unions en 90 jours et rester en contact \u00e9troit avec ma merveilleuse et aimante Marraine Al\u2011Anon, qui m\u2019accepte telle que je suis. Je ne peux pas m\u2019imaginer traverser cette \u00e9preuve sans le programme Al-Anon.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Anonyme<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum,<\/em> juillet 2023<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,222],"tags":[443],"class_list":["post-39882","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique","tag-reunions-de-famille"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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