{"id":39184,"date":"2023-04-20T14:41:33","date_gmt":"2023-04-20T18:41:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=39184"},"modified":"2023-04-20T14:41:33","modified_gmt":"2023-04-20T18:41:33","slug":"parfois-des-miracles-se-produisent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/parfois-des-miracles-se-produisent\/","title":{"rendered":"Parfois, des miracles se produisent"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Je suis l\u2019a\u00een\u00e9e d\u2019une famille de deux parents alcooliques. Cette d\u00e9claration vous en dit long sur certaines des fa\u00e7ons dont le mal familial de l\u2019alcoolisme se manifeste dans ma vie \u2013 le contr\u00f4le, la prise en charge et le d\u00e9sir de plaire aux autres se trouvant en t\u00eate de liste. Quand j\u2019avais six ans, mon seul fr\u00e8re est n\u00e9, et il est devenu ma responsabilit\u00e9. Toute ma vie, je me suis entendu dire que je devais prendre soin de mon fr\u00e8re. Je croyais que c\u2019\u00e9tait mon travail de m\u2019assurer que ses besoins \u00e9taient satisfaits et qu\u2019il allait bien.<\/p>\n<p>Il a pass\u00e9 une vie \u00e0 se percevoir comme une victime, croyant qu\u2019il ne pouvait pas prendre soin de lui-m\u00eame. Il a v\u00e9cu avec notre p\u00e8re toute sa vie adulte jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce que papa d\u00e9c\u00e8de. Il a abandonn\u00e9 ses \u00e9tudes et a altern\u00e9 entre des emplois peu r\u00e9mun\u00e9r\u00e9s et des p\u00e9riodes de ch\u00f4mage. Il a \u00e9t\u00e9 sans abri de temps en temps et a ricoch\u00e9 d\u2019une crise \u00e0 l\u2019autre.<\/p>\n<p>Sur son lit de mort, mon p\u00e8re m\u2019a fait promettre de \u00ab prendre soin \u00bb de mon fr\u00e8re, et j\u2019ai toujours essay\u00e9 de tenir cette promesse en intervenant chaque fois qu\u2019il \u00e9tait en situation de crise pour l\u2019aider, par exemple, \u00e0 acheter une voiture, \u00e0 trouver un endroit o\u00f9 vivre, \u00e0 demander de l\u2019aide sociale, \u00e0 trouver un emploi ou \u00e0 payer sa facture de t\u00e9l\u00e9phone. Apr\u00e8s mes nombreuses ann\u00e9es \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon, vous seriez port\u00e9s \u00e0 croire que je sais comment \u00ab l\u00e2cher prise et m\u2019en remettre \u00e0 Dieu\u00a0\u00bb pour prendre soin de mon fr\u00e8re comme j\u2019ai appris \u00e0 le faire avec les alcooliques dans ma vie.<\/p>\n<p>Toutefois, le d\u00e9fi pour moi, c\u2019est que mon fr\u00e8re n\u2019est pas alcoolique ou toxicomane. On ne lui a diagnostiqu\u00e9 aucune maladie mentale; mais, comme moi, il vient de parents alcooliques. Ma Marraine m\u2019a expliqu\u00e9 que certaines personnes affect\u00e9es par cette maladie ne parviennent pas \u00e0 prendre leur envol. Mon fr\u00e8re fait partie de celles-l\u00e0.\u00a0J\u2019ai pass\u00e9 une vie \u00e0 essayer de lui faire prendre son envol vers ma version d\u2019une vie meilleure pour lui.<\/p>\n<p>Il y a plusieurs mois, mon fr\u00e8re a de nouveau perdu un emploi et a entam\u00e9 sa spirale vers l\u2019itin\u00e9rance une fois de plus. Cette fois-ci, avec l\u2019aide de ma Marraine, de mes amis \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon, des outils du programme et de la gr\u00e2ce de ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure, j\u2019ai pu me d\u00e9tacher de sa situation et cesser d\u2019essayer de contr\u00f4ler le r\u00e9sultat. Je lui parlais quand il appelait, mais pendant ces conversations, je ne lui faisais pas la morale sur ses efforts pour r\u00e9gler sa situation et je ne lui offrais pas non plus de l\u2019aider \u00e0 r\u00e9soudre ses probl\u00e8mes. Je ne le rendais pas honteux et je ne le critiquais pas; je gardais les conversations civiles et agr\u00e9ables. Ce n\u2019\u00e9tait pas facile pour moi, mais en r\u00e9p\u00e9tant constamment mon mantra \u00ab L\u00e2cher prise et m\u2019en remettre \u00e0 Dieu\u00a0\u00bb, je comprends finalement que la vie de mon fr\u00e8re et son cheminement ne rel\u00e8vent pas de ma responsabilit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Parfois, des miracles se produisent! Mon fr\u00e8re a appel\u00e9 il y a quelques jours pour dire qu\u2019il avait trouv\u00e9 un emploi, tout seul, sans mon aide (c\u2019est-\u00e0-dire sans mon interf\u00e9rence)! Je d\u00e9borde de gratitude et de soulagement. Je ne sais pas combien de temps il gardera ce travail ni ce que l\u2019avenir nous r\u00e9serve, mais je suis tr\u00e8s fi\u00e8re de lui. Je suis fi\u00e8re de moi \u00e9galement et de la croissance que j\u2019ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9e en utilisant les outils du programme Al\u2011Anon. \u00ab\u00a0Un jour \u00e0 la fois\u00a0\u00bb, j\u2019apprends \u00e0 \u00ab\u00a0l\u00e2cher prise et m\u2019en remettre \u00e0 Dieu\u00a0\u00bb pour prendre soin de mon fr\u00e8re.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Denise C., Saskatchewan<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>mars 2023<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - 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