{"id":38408,"date":"2023-02-22T16:41:31","date_gmt":"2023-02-22T21:41:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=38408"},"modified":"2023-02-22T16:41:31","modified_gmt":"2023-02-22T21:41:31","slug":"danser-sous-la-pluie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/danser-sous-la-pluie\/","title":{"rendered":"Danser sous la pluie"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Mon parcours vers la vie spirituelle que j\u2019ai d\u00e9couverte dans Al\u2011Anon a d\u00e9but\u00e9 quand j\u2019\u00e9tais une jeune enfant grandissant dans une famille alcoolique. Toutefois, je n\u2019ai emprunt\u00e9 le chemin du r\u00e9tablissement que vers le milieu de ma vie, lorsque j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 m\u2019inqui\u00e9ter de la maladie de ma fille.<\/p>\n<p>Je n\u2019ai pas eu une enfance heureuse. C\u2019est une histoire classique de dysfonctionnement familial que bon nombre d\u2019entre nous ont v\u00e9cue en tant qu\u2019enfants. L\u2019alcoolisme de mon p\u00e8re n\u2019a jamais \u00e9t\u00e9 trait\u00e9 et il est mort pr\u00e9matur\u00e9ment \u00e0 cause de sa maladie.\u00a0Moi non plus, je n\u2019ai pas \u00e9t\u00e9 trait\u00e9e pour les cons\u00e9quences de son alcoolisme sur moi.<\/p>\n<p>Le chemin a \u00e9t\u00e9 cahoteux. Je souffrais d\u2019une faible estime de soi, d\u2019une autocritique intense, d\u2019un sentiment de responsabilit\u00e9 exag\u00e9r\u00e9, je cherchais toujours \u00e0 plaire aux autres, je manquais d\u2019int\u00e9grit\u00e9 et surtout, j\u2019avais besoin de tout contr\u00f4ler. J\u2019ai transf\u00e9r\u00e9 tous ces d\u00e9fauts et plus encore dans mon r\u00f4le de m\u00e8re d\u2019une fille affect\u00e9e par l\u2019alcoolisme, et, comme on pouvait s\u2019y attendre, la situation n\u2019a fait qu\u2019empirer.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai eu beaucoup de mal \u00e0 accepter les trois premi\u00e8res \u00c9tapes Al\u2011Anon, lesquelles soulignaient mon impuissance et mon incapacit\u00e9 \u00e0 g\u00e9rer le mal familial de l\u2019alcoolisme, ainsi que mon besoin de l\u2019aide d\u2019une Puissance sup\u00e9rieure \u00e0 moi-m\u00eame. Mon ent\u00eatement m\u2019a co\u00fbt\u00e9 ma sant\u00e9 et ma carri\u00e8re. Cependant, une fois que j\u2019ai l\u00e2ch\u00e9 prise sur mon autonomie et que j\u2019ai mis en pratique le programme Al\u2011Anon, ma vie s&rsquo;est am\u00e9lior\u00e9e. La Pri\u00e8re de S\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 m\u2019a servi de mantra quotidien. J\u2019ai appris \u00e0 l\u00e2cher prise sur les choses que je ne peux changer. Je n\u2019ai pas le pouvoir de lib\u00e9rer ma fille de sa maladie, mais je peux faire ma part pour me gu\u00e9rir de la mienne. C\u2019est sur ce point que j\u2019ai concentr\u00e9 mon travail \u00e0 Al\u2011Anon.<\/p>\n<p>Ma fille vit les hauts et les bas de sa maladie depuis 20 ans, et en ce moment, elle traverse une tr\u00e8s mauvaise passe. Cette situation ne fait que me mettre \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9preuve davantage. Ma foi se renforce chaque jour quand, avec amour, je confie ma fille \u00e0 sa Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure et que je peux assur\u00e9ment faire confiance \u00e0 la mienne.<\/p>\n<p>Mes amis me demandent\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Comment y parviens-tu? Tu as l\u2019air d\u2019y arriver si facilement!\u00a0\u00bb Je leur r\u00e9ponds que, premi\u00e8rement, cela n\u2019a pas \u00e9t\u00e9 facile. J\u2019ai atteint ce point seulement apr\u00e8s avoir pass\u00e9 des ann\u00e9es \u00e0 empoisonner mes relations les plus importantes avec les d\u00e9fauts dont j\u2019ai parl\u00e9 plus t\u00f4t. Je savais qu\u2019il fallait que je change pour \u00eatre heureuse. Deuxi\u00e8mement, aujourd\u2019hui, je choisis d\u2019accepter ce qui se passe dans ma vie, sans condition, dans la foi. J\u2019ai lu quelque part que la douleur est dans la r\u00e9sistance, non dans l\u2019acceptation ou la reddition. Il est beaucoup moins douloureux de l\u00e2cher prise et de savoir que les choses se d\u00e9roulent comme elles sont cens\u00e9es le faire. Il me suffit de lib\u00e9rer le chemin.<\/p>\n<p>ujhyNous avons tous des histoires diff\u00e9rentes, mais la vie spirituelle que j\u2019ai trouv\u00e9e dans Al\u2011Anon m\u2019a permis de comprendre que je peux toujours regarder en moi pour trouver la paix, et ce, peu importe les temp\u00eates qui font rage tout autour. J\u2019apprends \u00e0 danser sous la pluie.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Marilea R., Washington<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>f\u00e9vrier 2023<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,222,221],"tags":[433],"class_list":["post-38408","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique","tag-enfants-adultes"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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