{"id":38123,"date":"2022-12-29T16:13:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-29T21:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=38123"},"modified":"2022-12-29T16:13:00","modified_gmt":"2022-12-29T21:13:00","slug":"jai-vraiment-ma-place-dans-al-anon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/jai-vraiment-ma-place-dans-al-anon\/","title":{"rendered":"J\u2019ai \u00ab vraiment \u00bb ma place dans Al-Anon"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Toute ma vie, j&rsquo;ai lutt\u00e9 pour avoir un sentiment d&rsquo;appartenance. \u00c9tant fille unique, je me sentais nettement diff\u00e9rente de mes trois fr\u00e8res. \u00c9tant \u00ab\u00a0instinctive\u00a0\u00bb dans une famille de personnes \u00ab\u00a0r\u00e9fl\u00e9chies\u00a0\u00bb, je me sentais \u00e9trang\u00e8re. Le fait d&rsquo;avoir r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 mon homosexualit\u00e9 \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e2ge de vingt ans n&rsquo;a rien fait pour att\u00e9nuer mon sentiment d&rsquo;\u00eatre \u00ab\u00a0diff\u00e9rente\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Il n&rsquo;est donc pas surprenant qu&rsquo;il m&rsquo;ait fallu litt\u00e9ralement des ann\u00e9es de participation \u00e0 des r\u00e9unions pour me sentir vraiment \u00e0 ma place dans Al-Anon. Et cela n&rsquo;avait rien \u00e0 voir avec le fait d&rsquo;\u00eatre lesbienne. J&rsquo;avais l&rsquo;impression de ne pas appartenir \u00e0 Al-Anon parce que je n&rsquo;avais pas grandi au contact de l&rsquo;alcoolisme, je n&rsquo;avais jamais eu de relation amoureuse avec un alcoolique, et il n&rsquo;y avait pas d&rsquo;alcoolisme dans ma famille.<\/p>\n<p>La Troisi\u00e8me Tradition stipule : \u00ab\u00a0La seule condition requise pour faire partie d\u2019Al\u2011Anon, c\u2019est qu\u2019il y ait un probl\u00e8me d\u2019alcoolisme chez un parent ou un ami.\u00a0\u00bb J&rsquo;avais des amis qui \u00e9taient des alcooliques en voie de r\u00e9tablissement, alors je les ai utilis\u00e9s pour \u00ab\u00a0justifier\u00a0\u00bb ma pr\u00e9sence aux r\u00e9unions. Personne n&rsquo;a jamais contest\u00e9 mon droit d&rsquo;assister \u00e0 une r\u00e9union, mais je me sentais comme une impostrice.<\/p>\n<p>Pourtant, je continuais \u00e0 revenir. Je savais qu&rsquo;Al-Anon m&rsquo;aidait. Je savais que le programme me donnait des outils pour traiter avec ma coll\u00e8gue de travail dont le comportement erratique refl\u00e9tait celui de sa m\u00e8re alcoolique. Je me suis rendu compte que mes deux partenaires de longue date, toutes deux filles adultes d&rsquo;alcooliques, avaient \u00e9t\u00e9 affect\u00e9es par une enfance dans le contexte de l\u2019alcoolisme et que, \u00e0 mon tour, je l&rsquo;\u00e9tais aussi.<\/p>\n<p>Et puis, alors que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais dans le programme depuis environ 15 ans, mon fils adulte est venu me demander de l&rsquo;aide pour son probl\u00e8me d&rsquo;alcool. Il m&rsquo;a dit qu&rsquo;il \u00e9tait alcoolique. Je ne savais rien de l&rsquo;ampleur de sa consommation d&rsquo;alcool ni des ravages qu&rsquo;elle causait dans sa vie, mais il savait que je connaissais quelque chose \u00e0 l&rsquo;alcoolisme. Il savait aussi qu&rsquo;il pouvait me demander de l&rsquo;aide en toute s\u00e9curit\u00e9. J&rsquo;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 immens\u00e9ment reconnaissante envers Al-Anon pour cela.<\/p>\n<p>En fin de compte, j&rsquo;avais une raison \u00ab\u00a0l\u00e9gitime\u00a0\u00bb d&rsquo;\u00eatre dans Al-Anon; cependant, je n&rsquo;avais plus besoin de cette l\u00e9gitimit\u00e9. Quelque part en cours de route, j&rsquo;en \u00e9tais venu \u00e0 croire que ma place \u00e9tait dans Al-Anon. Je m&rsquo;\u00e9tais rendu compte que je n&rsquo;avais pas besoin de chercher une justification \u00e0 l&rsquo;ext\u00e9rieur de moi. Je savais que le programme Al-Anon me donnait des \u00e9tapes et des outils pour rester saine d&rsquo;esprit dans des relations qui pouvaient devenir insens\u00e9es. J&rsquo;avais appris que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais vraiment \u00e0 ma place.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Patricia B. <\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>novembre 2022<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,224,222],"tags":[433],"class_list":["post-38123","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-amie-alcoolique","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique","tag-enfants-adultes"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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