{"id":38119,"date":"2022-12-29T14:52:28","date_gmt":"2022-12-29T19:52:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=38119"},"modified":"2022-12-29T14:52:28","modified_gmt":"2022-12-29T19:52:28","slug":"priorite-a-la-serenite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/priorite-a-la-serenite\/","title":{"rendered":"Priorit\u00e9 \u00e0 la s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Lorsque je suis arriv\u00e9e dans le programme, mes priorit\u00e9s \u00e9taient influenc\u00e9es par la maladie familiale qu&rsquo;est l&rsquo;alcoolisme et la mort r\u00e9cente de mon p\u00e8re. Ma priorit\u00e9 imm\u00e9diate apr\u00e8s avoir perdu mon p\u00e8re \u00e0 cause de l&rsquo;abus d&rsquo;alcool \u00e9tait de sauver ma m\u00e8re du m\u00eame sort, car elle \u00e9tait \u00e9galement alcoolique. Ma priorit\u00e9 d\u2019alors, par-dessus tout \u2013 par-dessus le sommeil, la sant\u00e9 mentale, ma famille, ma propre sant\u00e9 \u2013 \u00e9tait d&#8217;emp\u00eacher ma m\u00e8re de boire et, par cons\u00e9quent, de mourir.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai adh\u00e9r\u00e9 au programme qu\u2019en d\u00e9pit de ma lutte, de mes pleurs et de mes supplications, ma m\u00e8re a refus\u00e9 d&rsquo;arr\u00eater de boire. Elle m&rsquo;a dit qu&rsquo;elle ne pouvait pas et ne voulait pas, et m&rsquo;a sugg\u00e9r\u00e9 de m&rsquo;en accommoder. Je ne savais pas comment m&rsquo;en sortir. Je ne savais pas comment accepter que c&rsquo;\u00e9tait son choix. J&rsquo;ai donc trouv\u00e9 une r\u00e9union Al-Anon et j&rsquo;ai eu envie d&rsquo;apprendre.<\/p>\n<p>Cela fait maintenant six ans que j&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 assister aux r\u00e9unions, et mon r\u00e9tablissement a parfois \u00e9t\u00e9 rapide, parfois retard\u00e9; mais, lentement, avec le temps, la patience et la sagesse du programme et des autres membres Al-Anon, j&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 comprendre que les choix de ma m\u00e8re n&rsquo;\u00e9taient pas quelque chose que je pouvais changer.<\/p>\n<p>J&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 voir que le v\u00e9ritable changement dont j&rsquo;avais besoin \u00e9tait \u00e0 l&rsquo;int\u00e9rieur de moi \u2013 un changement spirituel. J&rsquo;avais besoin de \u00ab\u00a0l\u00e2cher prise et m\u2019en remettre \u00e0 Dieu\u00a0\u00bb et de red\u00e9finir mes priorit\u00e9s, en pla\u00e7ant ma s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 au-dessus de tout. Je me suis rapidement rendu compte que ma s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 \u00e9tait un excellent barom\u00e8tre pour savoir si j&rsquo;essayais de forcer des solutions, de contr\u00f4ler les autres ou d&rsquo;exercer ma volont\u00e9. Si je perdais ma s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 \u00e0 un moment donn\u00e9, c&rsquo;\u00e9tait probablement parce que j&rsquo;avais une fois de plus \u00ab\u00a0replong\u00e9\u00a0\u00bb et que j&rsquo;avais recours \u00e0 mon ancienne fa\u00e7on de penser, \u00e0 savoir que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais responsable des actions des autres et que je pouvais les changer si seulement j&rsquo;essayais suffisamment fort.<\/p>\n<p>Aujourd&rsquo;hui, c&rsquo;est ma s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 qui prime. Ce qui me donne la s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9, c&rsquo;est ma connexion avec ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure, mon amour pour ma famille, et le fait de travailler sur mon programme en toutes choses. Avoir cette s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9, en d\u00e9pit du fait que ma m\u00e8re boive encore et des cons\u00e9quences de son alcoolisme que je dois g\u00e9rer chaque jour, est le v\u00e9ritable miracle de ma vie. Et tout cela, c&rsquo;est gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 Al-Anon!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Diana M., Ontario<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>d\u00e9cembre 2022<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,221],"tags":[433],"class_list":["post-38119","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique","tag-enfants-adultes"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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