{"id":38097,"date":"2022-12-29T14:26:12","date_gmt":"2022-12-29T19:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=38097"},"modified":"2022-12-29T14:26:12","modified_gmt":"2022-12-29T19:26:12","slug":"est-ce-que-tu-maimes-aujourdhui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/est-ce-que-tu-maimes-aujourdhui\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00ab Est-ce que tu m&rsquo;aimes aujourd&rsquo;hui? \u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Ayant grandi dans un foyer affect\u00e9 par l\u2019alcoolisme, je vivais quotidiennement dans l&rsquo;instabilit\u00e9 et l&rsquo;ins\u00e9curit\u00e9. Contrairement aux enfants qui ont grandi en entendant qu&rsquo;ils \u00e9taient aim\u00e9s \u00ab\u00a0de tout mon c\u0153ur \u00bb ou \u00ab\u00a0\u00e0 la folie\u00a0\u00bb par quelqu&rsquo;un qui avait les bras grands ouverts, je demandais \u00e0 ma m\u00e8re : \u00ab\u00a0Est-ce que tu m&rsquo;aimes aujourd&rsquo;hui?\u00a0\u00bb pour qu&rsquo;elle me r\u00e9ponde par un haussement d&rsquo;\u00e9paules et un \u00ab\u00a0Ben, comme d&rsquo;habitude!\u00a0\u00bb Elle est morte quand j&rsquo;avais 15 ans, et je n&rsquo;ai jamais eu de r\u00e9ponse diff\u00e9rente.<\/p>\n<p>Lorsque l&rsquo;alcoolisme de mon fils est devenu incontr\u00f4lable, j&rsquo;ai ripost\u00e9 avec toute la fureur qui n&rsquo;avait pas \u00e9t\u00e9 exprim\u00e9e dans mon enfance. J&rsquo;ai sermonn\u00e9, puni et n\u00e9goci\u00e9 avec Dieu. J&rsquo;ai fouill\u00e9 la chambre de mon fils, j&rsquo;ai fouill\u00e9 dans ses tiroirs, son placard et sa voiture, j&rsquo;ai fouill\u00e9 ses poches, je l&rsquo;ai test\u00e9 et j&rsquo;ai essay\u00e9 de sentir son haleine quand il s&rsquo;approchait. J&rsquo;ai cajol\u00e9, rabaiss\u00e9 et menac\u00e9. Il a menti, vol\u00e9 et s&rsquo;est retir\u00e9 dans sa chambre. Il \u00e9tait en col\u00e8re et m&rsquo;a compl\u00e8tement exclue. Il semblait que je l&rsquo;avais perdu. Ce n&rsquo;est que lorsque j&rsquo;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que je me perdais moi-m\u00eame que les choses ont commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 changer.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c0 Al-Anon, j&rsquo;ai appris \u00e0 prendre soin de moi et \u00e0 m&rsquo;aimer. Les progr\u00e8s ont \u00e9t\u00e9 lents au d\u00e9but parce que je pensais que je n&rsquo;\u00e9tais pas aimable. J&rsquo;avais l&rsquo;impression d&rsquo;\u00eatre une fille <em>et<\/em> une m\u00e8re rat\u00e9e. Mais \u00e0 mesure que j&rsquo;ai pris conscience de la fa\u00e7on dont mes comportements transf\u00e9raient ma douleur \u00e0 mon fils, j&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 changer, \u00e0 prendre du recul et \u00e0 lui laisser la dignit\u00e9 et l&rsquo;autod\u00e9termination auxquelles il a droit.<\/p>\n<p>R\u00e9cemment, mon fils m&rsquo;a dit qu&rsquo;il avait essay\u00e9 de l&rsquo;h\u00e9ro\u00efne il y a plusieurs mois. Il a attendu ma r\u00e9ponse. J&rsquo;ai fait appel \u00e0 ma Puissance Sup\u00e9rieure. Au lieu d&rsquo;\u00eatre en col\u00e8re, boulevers\u00e9e ou bless\u00e9e, je l&rsquo;ai regard\u00e9 dans les yeux et j&rsquo;ai vu mon petit gar\u00e7on, mon fils. Je me suis entendu dire\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Merci d&rsquo;avoir partag\u00e9 cela. Merci de me faire confiance. Je t&rsquo;aime, je t&rsquo;ai toujours aim\u00e9 et je t&rsquo;aimerai toujours.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Avant Al-Anon, je n&rsquo;aurais jamais \u00e9t\u00e9 capable d&rsquo;entendre que ce qu&rsquo;il disait vraiment, c&rsquo;\u00e9tait : \u00ab\u00a0Est-ce que tu m&rsquo;aimes aujourd\u2019hui?\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Deirdre B., New York<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>novembre 2022<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,222,221],"tags":[435,433],"class_list":["post-38097","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique","tag-en-colere","tag-enfants-adultes"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>\u00ab Est-ce que tu m&#039;aimes aujourd&#039;hui? 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