{"id":37419,"date":"2022-09-08T08:59:25","date_gmt":"2022-09-08T12:59:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=37419"},"modified":"2022-09-08T08:59:27","modified_gmt":"2022-09-08T12:59:27","slug":"une-professionnelle-se-sent-mise-au-defi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/une-professionnelle-se-sent-mise-au-defi\/","title":{"rendered":"Une professionnelle se sent mise au d\u00e9fi"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><blockquote>\n<p>Huiti\u00e8me Tradition : Le travail de Douzi\u00e8me \u00c9tape Al Anon devrait toujours demeurer non professionnel, mais nos centres de services peuvent engager des employ\u00e9s qualifi\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>L&rsquo;une de mes meilleures amies s&rsquo;est suicid\u00e9e. En tant que psychologue de profession, je me suis beaucoup sentie coupable de ne pas avoir pu l&#8217;emp\u00eacher. Cette perte m&rsquo;a durement touch\u00e9e, mais ce n&rsquo;\u00e9tait pas mon genre de demander de l&rsquo;aide. Je me suis rendu compte que mon ind\u00e9pendance et ma formation professionnelle rendaient difficile de s&rsquo;ouvrir aux autres. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais celle qui avait le contr\u00f4le, qui connaissait les r\u00e9ponses et qui aidait les autres; je ne voulais pas \u00eatre celle qui s&rsquo;ouvrait pour demander de l&rsquo;aide.<\/p>\n<p>J&rsquo;ai essay\u00e9 d&rsquo;aller dans un groupe de soutien au suicide, mais j&rsquo;ai trouv\u00e9 cela trop d\u00e9primant. J&rsquo;avais besoin de trouver un endroit pour partager, \u00eatre moi-m\u00eame et apprendre \u00e0 accepter les calamit\u00e9s qui peuvent survenir. Ma partenaire depuis dix ans se remettait de l&rsquo;alcoolisme et suivait son programme en douze \u00e9tapes. Cela fonctionnait bien pour elle. Je me suis dit qu&rsquo;un programme en douze \u00e9tapes pourrait peut-\u00eatre r\u00e9pondre \u00e0 mon besoin de soutien. C&rsquo;est dr\u00f4le, je n&rsquo;avais jamais envisag\u00e9 Al-Anon avant cela. Malgr\u00e9 l&rsquo;alcoolisme du c\u00f4t\u00e9 de ma m\u00e8re, un fr\u00e8re ou une s\u0153ur ayant des probl\u00e8mes de toxicomanie et une partenaire AA, je craignais de ne pas \u00eatre \u00e0 ma place.<\/p>\n<p>Ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union a \u00e9t\u00e9 difficile parce qu&rsquo;on y disait le Notre P\u00e8re \u00e0 la fin. \u00c9tant dans une relation lesbienne depuis longtemps, je ne me sentais plus accept\u00e9e ou soutenue dans la foi dans laquelle j&rsquo;avais \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e9lev\u00e9e. Je ne sentais pas que je pouvais \u00eatre moi-m\u00eame dans ce groupe.<\/p>\n<p>La semaine suivante, j&rsquo;ai trouv\u00e9 le seul groupe sp\u00e9cifiquement identifi\u00e9 LGBTQIA+ de ma ville. J&rsquo;y ai \u00e9t\u00e9 chaleureusement accueillie et j&rsquo;ai trouv\u00e9 un endroit o\u00f9 je pouvais \u00eatre moi-m\u00eame et partager mes difficult\u00e9s, tout en apprenant que j&rsquo;avais ma place dans Al-Anon. Le fait de ne plus m&rsquo;occuper des autres, mais de moi-m\u00eame, ma difficult\u00e9 \u00e0 accepter la vie telle qu&rsquo;elle est et \u00e0 d\u00e9terminer ce dont j&rsquo;ai besoin et enfin mon besoin d&rsquo;apprendre que je peux confier \u00e0 l&rsquo;univers les choses que je ne peux pas contr\u00f4ler \u2013 tout cela signifie que je suis bien \u00e0 ma place.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Anonyme<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum<\/em>, ao\u00fbt 2022<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue\u00a0<em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - 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