{"id":37346,"date":"2022-08-31T10:38:39","date_gmt":"2022-08-31T14:38:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=37346"},"modified":"2022-08-31T10:42:15","modified_gmt":"2022-08-31T14:42:15","slug":"je-ne-peux-pas-sauver-les-autres-de-leur-consommation-dalcool","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/je-ne-peux-pas-sauver-les-autres-de-leur-consommation-dalcool\/","title":{"rendered":"Je ne peux pas sauver les autres de leur consommation d\u2019alcool"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Apr\u00e8s que mon fianc\u00e9 est d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9 de son alcoolisme progressif, j&rsquo;ai suppli\u00e9 Dieu de me laisser mourir aussi. Je n&rsquo;avais pas r\u00e9ussi \u00e0 le sauver et j&rsquo;avais d\u00e9\u00e7u ses parents, qui avaient dit que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais leur dernier espoir. Un de mes proches m&rsquo;a dit qu&rsquo;il ne comprenait pas pourquoi quelqu&rsquo;un d&rsquo;aussi intelligent, avec tant d&rsquo;opportunit\u00e9s, ne pouvait pas arr\u00eater de boire. Cette question a intensifi\u00e9 mon chagrin et mon sentiment de perte d\u00e9vastatrice. Je me suis sentie abandonn\u00e9e. Dans mon esprit, la fa\u00e7on dont ses parents avaient r\u00e9agi \u00e0 sa consommation d&rsquo;alcool n&rsquo;avait fait qu&rsquo;accro\u00eetre sa culpabilit\u00e9 et sa honte et l&rsquo;avait vid\u00e9 de toute motivation pour arr\u00eater. Je ne pouvais m&#8217;emp\u00eacher de les bl\u00e2mer et de leur en vouloir.<\/p>\n<p>Lors de son service comm\u00e9moratif, son meilleur ami, qui avait des ann\u00e9es de sobri\u00e9t\u00e9 gr\u00e2ce aux AA, a discr\u00e8tement sugg\u00e9r\u00e9 qu&rsquo;Al-Anon pourrait \u00eatre bon pour moi. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais nerveuse \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union, mais j&rsquo;ai d\u00e9couvert que tout le monde comprenait. Les membres m&rsquo;ont serr\u00e9e dans leurs bras et m&rsquo;ont dit qu&rsquo;ils \u00e9taient heureux que j\u2019y aie assist\u00e9. J&rsquo;ai achet\u00e9 un recueil de lectures quotidiennes et je le lisais tous les matins pendant mon petit-d\u00e9jeuner. J&rsquo;ai pleur\u00e9 aux r\u00e9unions pendant plusieurs mois. Personne ne jugeait mon chagrin. Personne ne me critiquait.<\/p>\n<p>J&rsquo;ai appris que l&rsquo;alcoolisme n&rsquo;est pas un probl\u00e8me moral et que ses parents n&rsquo;avaient ni l&rsquo;intention de le propulser vers la mort ni le pouvoir de le faire. J&rsquo;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que moi aussi, j&rsquo;avais r\u00e9agi d&rsquo;une mani\u00e8re qui n&rsquo;avait servi qu&rsquo;\u00e0 me rendre temporairement moins anxieuse face \u00e0 son \u00e9tat pr\u00e9caire.<\/p>\n<p>Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 Al-Anon, j&rsquo;ai appris que mon travail consiste \u00e0 me changer moi-m\u00eame, et non \u00e0 sauver les autres. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais devenue aussi malade que mon d\u00e9funt fianc\u00e9 alcoolique, j&rsquo;avais v\u00e9cu en r\u00e9action \u00e0 l&rsquo;alcoolisme de quelqu&rsquo;un d\u2019autre depuis ma naissance, et j&rsquo;avais pass\u00e9 ma vie \u00e0 essayer de sauver les autres pour att\u00e9nuer mes propres peurs. La partie la plus importante de ma nouvelle prise de conscience est d&rsquo;accepter que je suis impuissante face \u00e0 l&rsquo;alcool et aux personnes, aux lieux et aux choses. La s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 que je commence \u00e0 ressentir est un cadeau inattendu de Dieu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Melinda D., New Hampshire<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>juillet 2022<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,220,225],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37346","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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