{"id":37344,"date":"2022-08-31T10:32:23","date_gmt":"2022-08-31T14:32:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=37344"},"modified":"2022-08-31T10:32:24","modified_gmt":"2022-08-31T14:32:24","slug":"travailler-sur-lacceptation-de-la-maladie-de-mon-fils","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/travailler-sur-lacceptation-de-la-maladie-de-mon-fils\/","title":{"rendered":"Travailler sur l&rsquo;acceptation de la maladie de mon fils"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Au d\u00e9part, je pensais avoir rejoint Al-Anon pour obtenir de l&rsquo;aide pour mon fils \u2013 mon fils, mon b\u00e9b\u00e9. J&rsquo;avais l&rsquo;habitude de l&rsquo;appeler mon \u00ab\u00a0co\u00e9quipier\u00a0\u00bb parce qu&rsquo;il allait partout avec moi. Mais les choses ont chang\u00e9. Quand il a eu 14 ans, je l&rsquo;ai mis en th\u00e9rapie intensive, avec des s\u00e9ances pratiquement chaque jour. Quand il a eu 15 ans, je l&rsquo;ai envoy\u00e9 dans l&rsquo;Utah pour un programme en milieu sauvage. \u00c0 16 ans, il a suivi sa premi\u00e8re cure de d\u00e9sintoxication. Au cours des huit derni\u00e8res ann\u00e9es, il a fait des allers-retours entre la d\u00e9sintoxication, la sobri\u00e9t\u00e9 et le traitement intensif en externe. Il a \u00e9t\u00e9 plac\u00e9 dans l&rsquo;aile psychiatrique de deux h\u00f4pitaux, dans d&rsquo;innombrables salles d&rsquo;urgence et a fait des allers-retours en prison. Il a v\u00e9cu chez lui, chez des amis, dans des motels et dans la rue. Il s&rsquo;est introduit chez moi, a cass\u00e9 des portes, arrach\u00e9 les moustiquaires des fen\u00eatres et vol\u00e9 de l&rsquo;argent et des cartes de cr\u00e9dit. Je l&rsquo;ai vu tellement ivre qu&rsquo;il ne pouvait ni marcher ni parler, tellement d\u00e9fonc\u00e9 qu&rsquo;il parlait \u00e0 des personnes imaginaires, tellement malade qu&rsquo;il vomissait par la fen\u00eatre de ma voiture, et tellement triste et effray\u00e9 qu&rsquo;il sanglotait de fa\u00e7on incontr\u00f4lable pendant des heures.<\/p>\n<p>Avant d&rsquo;aller plus loin, je veux qu&rsquo;il soit bien clair que j&rsquo;adore mon fils. Je d\u00e9teste l&rsquo;alcoolisme et la d\u00e9pendance et ce que cette maladie a fait de lui, mais j&rsquo;adore mon fils! Lorsque je me suis rendue \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union bas\u00e9e sur les Douze \u00c9tapes, je cherchais d\u00e9sesp\u00e9r\u00e9ment des r\u00e9ponses, quelqu&rsquo;un qui me dise quoi faire pour gu\u00e9rir mon fils. C&rsquo;est peut-\u00eatre la raison pour laquelle beaucoup d&rsquo;entre nous ont commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 fr\u00e9quenter Al-Anon, mais ce n&rsquo;est pas la raison pour laquelle je suis rest\u00e9e.<\/p>\n<p>Lorsque j&rsquo;ai trouv\u00e9 mon groupe d&rsquo;appartenance, j&rsquo;ai pens\u00e9 : \u00ab\u00a0<em>J&rsquo;ai enfin trouv\u00e9 mon \u00e9quipe!<\/em>\u00a0\u00bb. Les membres de mon groupe \u00e9taient tous des parents d&rsquo;alcooliques et de toxicomanes, et ils comprenaient la douleur, la peur, la culpabilit\u00e9, le ressentiment et le chagrin particuliers que l&rsquo;on ressent quand on est parent d&rsquo;un enfant atteint de cette maladie.<\/p>\n<p>Maintenant, je n\u2019assiste plus aux r\u00e9unions Al-Anon pour gu\u00e9rir mon fils; j\u2019y vais pour me gu\u00e9rir moi-m\u00eame<strong>, <\/strong>parce que malgr\u00e9 toute la tristesse et le chagrin que j&rsquo;ai ressentis et que je continuerai \u00e0 ressentir, je suis fatigu\u00e9e de vivre dans le chaos. En tant que m\u00e8re d&rsquo;un alcoolique\/d\u00e9pendant, la tristesse et le chagrin font partie de ma vie. Mais d&rsquo;autres choses existent aussi.<\/p>\n<p>Je travaille donc \u00e0 accepter les \u00ab\u00a0choses que je ne peux changer\u00a0\u00bb. Je ne peux pas changer ou gu\u00e9rir la maladie de mon fils; lui seul peut le faire. Mon acceptation de ce fait est intermittente. Parfois, j&rsquo;ai l&rsquo;impression d&rsquo;\u00eatre un petit enfant qui fait une crise de col\u00e8re : \u00ab\u00a0Non! Je ne veux pas que ce soit vrai!\u00a0\u00bb. Mais je me rends compte que tant que je ne pourrai pas accepter la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 de la d\u00e9pendance de mon fils, de sa maladie, je ne pourrai pas agir ni avancer dans ma propre vie. L&rsquo;acceptation peut mener \u00e0 l&rsquo;abandon, ce qui me lib\u00e8re pour travailler sur moi-m\u00eame. Mon r\u00e9tablissement est assur\u00e9ment un travail en cours. Et c&rsquo;est pourquoi je \u00ab\u00a0pers\u00e9v\u00e8re\u00a0\u00bb dans ces r\u00e9unions chaque semaine.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Marjorie L., Colorado<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>juillet 2022<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,222],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37344","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.0 - 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