{"id":36238,"date":"2022-04-25T13:56:20","date_gmt":"2022-04-25T17:56:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=36238"},"modified":"2022-04-25T13:56:24","modified_gmt":"2022-04-25T17:56:24","slug":"ma-mere-et-moi-avons-une-relation-damour","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/ma-mere-et-moi-avons-une-relation-damour\/","title":{"rendered":"Ma m\u00e8re et moi avons une relation d&rsquo;amour"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Ma relation avec ma m\u00e8re a \u00e9t\u00e9 tr\u00e8s difficile depuis mon adolescence. Nous avions toutes deux \u00e9t\u00e9 affect\u00e9es par l&rsquo;alcoolisme de mani\u00e8res diff\u00e9rentes. Elle essayait de me dire comment vivre ma vie, et je n&rsquo;aimais pas cela. Plus je vieillissais, plus notre relation empirait.<\/p>\n<p>Finalement, je me suis mari\u00e9e et j&rsquo;ai quitt\u00e9 l&rsquo;Argentine pour les \u00c9tats-Unis. Apr\u00e8s mon divorce, j&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 fr\u00e9quenter Al-Anon. J&rsquo;\u00e9tais dans le programme depuis environ six mois lorsque ma m\u00e8re s&rsquo;est invit\u00e9e \u00e0 passer trois semaines avec moi. Son plan \u00e9tait de passer les vacances chez moi, puis, en janvier, d&rsquo;aller en Floride et de passer deux autres semaines, toutes les deux partageant la m\u00eame chambre d&rsquo;h\u00f4tel.<\/p>\n<p>Pour pouvoir survivre, j&rsquo;ai \u00e9labor\u00e9 un grand plan de mon c\u00f4t\u00e9. Comme je n&rsquo;allais pas dire \u00e0 ma m\u00e8re que j&rsquo;assistais aux r\u00e9unions Al-Anon, je lui ai dit que l&rsquo;association professionnelle \u00e0 laquelle j&rsquo;appartenais organisait un congr\u00e8s et que j&rsquo;allais assister \u00e0 la derni\u00e8re conf\u00e9rence de chaque journ\u00e9e. Au lieu de cela, je suis all\u00e9e aux r\u00e9unions Al-Anon. Comme on \u00e9tait en janvier, chaque r\u00e9union portait sur la Premi\u00e8re \u00c9tape. Apr\u00e8s la troisi\u00e8me ou la quatri\u00e8me r\u00e9union, j&rsquo;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que je devais mettre en pratique la Premi\u00e8re \u00c9tape avec ma m\u00e8re. J&rsquo;ai admis que j&rsquo;\u00e9tais impuissante face \u00e0 elle et \u00e0 son attitude dominatrice. Lorsque j&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 l&rsquo;accepter telle qu&rsquo;elle est, j&rsquo;ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 me sentir mieux.<\/p>\n<p>Juste apr\u00e8s cette prise de conscience, un soir o\u00f9 je revenais d&rsquo;une r\u00e9union, ma m\u00e8re m&rsquo;a dit\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Ces s\u00e9minaires sont tr\u00e8s bons pour toi. Quand tu en reviens, tu as le sourire aux l\u00e8vres et tu n&rsquo;es pas tendue. Est-ce qu&rsquo;ils ont quelque chose \u00e0 voir avec le livre que tu lis dans la salle de bains?\u00a0\u00bb. (Je lisais <a href=\"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/pour-les-membres\/ressources-pour-les-membres\/documentation\/litterature-al-anon-et-alateen\/le-courage-de-changer-fb16\/\"><em>Le Courage de changer<\/em> [FB-16]<\/a> dans le seul endroit priv\u00e9.) C&rsquo;est \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0 que notre relation a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 changer. Je lui ai parl\u00e9 d&rsquo;Al-Anon et, comme elle voulait apprendre l&rsquo;anglais, je lui ai achet\u00e9 le recueil <em>Le Courage de changer<\/em> en anglais et en espagnol. Elle a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 les lire tous les jours et, au bout d&rsquo;un moment, a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 d&rsquo;aller aux r\u00e9unions Al-Anon en Argentine.<\/p>\n<p>Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 Al-Anon, j&rsquo;ai chang\u00e9, et ma m\u00e8re aussi. Pendant les vingt-cinq derni\u00e8res ann\u00e9es de sa vie, nous avons eu une relation merveilleuse.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Alicia D., Pennsylvanie<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, mars 2022<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant\u00a0: Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,221],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36238","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - 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