{"id":31596,"date":"2021-02-22T13:52:17","date_gmt":"2021-02-22T18:52:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=31596"},"modified":"2021-02-22T13:52:26","modified_gmt":"2021-02-22T18:52:26","slug":"un-moment-de-clarte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/un-moment-de-clarte\/","title":{"rendered":"Un moment de clart\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>En d\u00e9pit d\u2019avoir grandi dans le contexte de l\u2019alcoolisme, je n\u2019en avais pas subi les cons\u00e9quences \u2013 du moins, c\u2019est ce que je pensais \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9poque. Lorsque ma m\u00e8re est all\u00e9e en d\u00e9sintoxication pendant ma derni\u00e8re ann\u00e9e d\u2019\u00e9tudes secondaires, je me suis dit joyeusement\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0probl\u00e8me r\u00e9solu! Dieu merci, c\u2019est fini!\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Mais ce n\u2019\u00e9tait pas fini. Vingt ans plus tard, ma relation avec ma fille de 12 ans \u00e9tait horrible. Elle \u00e9tait malheureuse. J\u2019ai fait tout ce que j\u2019ai pu pour mettre de l\u2019ordre dans sa vie\u00a0: je lui ai dit ce qu\u2019elle devait faire et ce qu\u2019elle devait penser. Mais plus j\u2019essayais d\u2019aider, plus les choses empiraient.<\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s l\u2019une de nos disputes nocturnes, je me suis pr\u00e9cipit\u00e9e dans ma propre chambre. Je me suis assise sur mon lit, totalement frustr\u00e9e. J\u2019\u00e9tais seule dans la chambre. Soudain, sorti de nulle part, je me suis entendu dire \u00ab\u00a0C\u2019est comme vivre avec un ivrogne!\u00a0\u00bb Je ne savais m\u00eame pas que je pensais cela. N\u00e9anmoins, c\u2019\u00e9tait vrai, et je l\u2019ai su d\u00e8s que je me suis entendue le dire.<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai pris le t\u00e9l\u00e9phone dans la chambre et j\u2019ai appel\u00e9 mon fr\u00e8re a\u00een\u00e9. Il m\u2019avait dit qu\u2019il allait aux r\u00e9unions Al-Anon pour les enfants adultes d\u2019alcooliques. Je lui ai demand\u00e9 si ces r\u00e9unions m\u2019aideraient. Il a r\u00e9pondu par l\u2019affirmative. Puis il a \u00e9galement dit que je devrais aller aux r\u00e9unions pour moi-m\u00eame, et non pour soigner ma fille. Je ne comprenais pas pourquoi il me disait cela, pas plus que je ne comprenais pourquoi ma relation avec ma fille me donnait l\u2019impression de vivre avec une personne alcoolique, compte tenu du fait qu\u2019aucune de nous ne buvait.<\/p>\n<p>Je suis all\u00e9e \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union cette semaine-l\u00e0. J\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 comprendre la maladie familiale qu\u2019est l\u2019alcoolisme. Je serai toujours reconnaissante pour le moment de clart\u00e9 que j\u2019ai v\u00e9cu ce soir-l\u00e0, assise seule dans ma chambre, et pour l\u2019amour, le soutien et l\u2019espoir que je continue de recevoir \u00e0 Al-Anon.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Eileen F., Kansas <\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, f\u00e9vrier 2021<\/em><\/p>\n<div><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant : Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <i>The Forum<\/i>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,221],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31596","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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