{"id":31590,"date":"2021-02-22T13:17:22","date_gmt":"2021-02-22T18:17:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=31590"},"modified":"2021-02-22T13:21:43","modified_gmt":"2021-02-22T18:21:43","slug":"jai-une-vie-extraordinaire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/jai-une-vie-extraordinaire\/","title":{"rendered":"J\u2019ai une vie extraordinaire"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Je venais de me s\u00e9parer de mon mari. Il avait un probl\u00e8me d\u2019alcoolisme que j\u2019essayais d\u2019ignorer. Quelques-uns de mes amis proches \u00e9taient au courant de ce qui se passait chez moi. Quelques mois avant que mon mari et moi nous s\u00e9parions, une de mes amies m\u2019a fortement encourag\u00e9e \u00e0 aller \u00e0 Al-Anon. J\u2019\u00e9tais dans le d\u00e9ni total et je ne voulais pas ajouter une autre chose \u00e0 ma folle vie.<\/p>\n<p>Quelques mois apr\u00e8s notre s\u00e9paration, j\u2019ai finalement assist\u00e9 \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union. J\u2019y suis all\u00e9e parce que je craignais pour la s\u00e9curit\u00e9 de mes enfants pendant qu\u2019ils \u00e9taient chez leur p\u00e8re, et c\u2019\u00e9tait presque trop dur \u00e0 supporter. Ma crainte pour leur s\u00e9curit\u00e9 \u00e9tait maintenant plus grande que ma honte et ma peur d\u2019admettre que mon mari avait un probl\u00e8me d\u2019alcool. Je me souviens d\u2019avoir trembl\u00e9 en allant \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union, \u00e0 ma deuxi\u00e8me r\u00e9union et \u00e0 ma troisi\u00e8me. Je pouvais \u00e0 peine lire les Douze \u00c9tapes. J\u2019avais encore peur d\u2019affronter la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 de la situation que je vivais depuis plusieurs ann\u00e9es, ainsi que la nouvelle situation consistant \u00e0 m\u2019assurer que mes enfants allaient bien lorsqu\u2019ils \u00e9taient sous la garde de leur p\u00e8re.<\/p>\n<p>Pourquoi y ai-je assist\u00e9 \u00e0 l\u2019origine? Au d\u00e9but, c\u2019\u00e9tait difficile, mais j\u2019avais essay\u00e9 tout le reste. Je voulais retrouver la s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 que je ressentais chez les membres lors des r\u00e9unions. J\u2019ai appris que j\u2019\u00e9tais l\u00e0 pour moi, que je ne faisais pas boire mon mari et que je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas responsable de lui ni de ses actes. Le mot \u00ab\u00a0amour\u00a0\u00bb a \u00e9t\u00e9 mentionn\u00e9 \u00e0 plusieurs reprises. Je voulais cela et la tranquillit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Pourquoi est-ce que je continue \u00e0 assister aux r\u00e9unions? J\u2019ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 qu\u2019Al-Anon a \u00e9t\u00e9 l\u2019un des meilleurs cadeaux qui m\u2019ait \u00e9t\u00e9 fait. Vivre au contact de la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme m\u2019avait enlev\u00e9 presque tout dans ma vie \u2013 ma confiance en soi, ma s\u00e9curit\u00e9, et ma confiance envers presque tout et envers tout le monde. Travailler dans le cadre du programme Al-Anon m\u2019a aid\u00e9e \u00e0 me reconstruire et m\u2019a donn\u00e9 beaucoup plus que je ne l\u2019aurais jamais cru possible. M\u00eame si je dois encore faire face aux nombreux effets quotidiens de la maladie de l\u2019alcoolisme sur moi et mes enfants, j\u2019ai une vie extraordinaire qui d\u00e9passe tout ce dont j\u2019avais r\u00eav\u00e9. Maintenant, je vis ma vie, je m\u2019occupe des choses difficiles et j\u2019appr\u00e9cie les choses merveilleuses que la vie a \u00e0 offrir.<\/p>\n<p>Je suis \u00e0 Al-Anon depuis trois ans. Je reviens toujours pour de nombreuses raisons, mais la plus importante pour moi est que je suis une personne meilleure et plus \u00e9panouie qu\u2019hier, et je vois comment le lendemain sera meilleur que le jour pr\u00e9c\u00e9dent pour le restant de mes jours, tout en continuant \u00e0 participer \u00e0 tout ce qu\u2019Al-Anon a \u00e0 m\u2019offrir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Anonyme<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>janvier 2021<\/p>\n<div><strong>Cet article peut \u00eatre reproduit sur le site Web de votre corps de service ou dans votre bulletin de nouvelles en pr\u00e9cisant : Permission accord\u00e9e par la revue <i>The Forum<\/i>, Al\u2011Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, VA.<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - 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