{"id":26875,"date":"2019-12-03T15:27:10","date_gmt":"2019-12-03T20:27:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=26875"},"modified":"2021-09-28T17:00:04","modified_gmt":"2021-09-28T21:00:04","slug":"maintenant-revenons-a-moi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/maintenant-revenons-a-moi\/","title":{"rendered":"Maintenant, revenons \u00e0 moi!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Quand je suis all\u00e9e \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union Al-Anon, j\u2019avais peur de ne pas \u00eatre \u00e0 ma place. Cependant, j\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 rassur\u00e9e que la seule exigence pour devenir membre est qu\u2019il y ait un probl\u00e8me d\u2019alcoolisme chez un parent ou un ami. \u00c0 l\u2019\u00e9poque, je vivais un long et triste mariage, mais je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas s\u00fbre que mon mari f\u00fbt alcoolique. Il buvait beaucoup, mais \u00e9tait capable de travailler. Il perdait son sang-froid, mais pas seulement quand il buvait. Une amie dont le mari \u00e9tait sur son lit de mort des suites de l\u2019alcoolisme m\u2019a dit que, m\u00eame si je ne savais pas avec certitude s\u2019il \u00e9tait alcoolique ou non, il semblait avoir un comportement de d\u00e9pendance; en outre, elle m\u2019a encourag\u00e9e \u00e0 prendre soin de moi. Cela m\u2019a amen\u00e9e \u00e0 ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union. J\u2019\u00e9tais reconnaissante de pouvoir donner mon pr\u00e9nom et \u00e9couter. J\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 reconna\u00eetre de nombreuses caract\u00e9ristiques qui d\u00e9crivaient ma relation avec mon mari.<\/p>\n<p>Depuis, je sais que je suis au bon endroit. Bien que je ne sois plus mari\u00e9e, je b\u00e9n\u00e9ficie de continuer \u00e0 assister aux r\u00e9unions. Mon fils a un probl\u00e8me d\u2019alcool et Al-Anon m\u2019aide \u00e0 interagir de fa\u00e7on plus \u00e9quilibr\u00e9e avec lui et avec toutes les personnes que je rencontre. Lors des r\u00e9unions, j\u2019entends de nombreux exemples sur le l\u00e2cher-prise et les fa\u00e7ons de laisser les choses suivre leur cours. Quand j\u2019\u00e9tais enfant, j\u2019avais \u00e9t\u00e9 conditionn\u00e9e \u00e0 \u00eatre gentille, mais j\u2019ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que j\u2019avais laiss\u00e9 les choses aller beaucoup trop loin. J\u2019avais ob\u00e9i aux souhaits de mon mari et je m\u2019\u00e9tais compl\u00e8tement perdue. J\u2019ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que je n\u2019\u00e9tais plus en symbiose avec mes propres sentiments et que je ne savais plus quelles \u00e9taient mes pr\u00e9f\u00e9rences. J\u2019\u00e9tais toujours d\u2019accord pour bien m\u2019entendre avec lui, et je ne savais plus, par exemple, quelle musique ou quel restaurant j\u2019aimais. Pour garder la paix, je disais\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0tu choisis\u00a0\u00bb, ou \u00ab\u00a0tout me convient\u00a0\u00bb. Je choisis maintenant de devenir plus en harmonie avec mon v\u00e9ritable moi. Quelle surprise de pouvoir repartir \u00e0 z\u00e9ro et commencer \u00e0 me donner la permission de faire de petits et de grands choix.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Barbara D., Colorado<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>septembre 2019<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,220,225],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26875","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Maintenant, revenons \u00e0 moi! 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