{"id":26340,"date":"2019-10-01T14:31:11","date_gmt":"2019-10-01T18:31:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=26340"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:19:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T17:19:14","slug":"je-ne-ressens-plus-de-colere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/je-ne-ressens-plus-de-colere\/","title":{"rendered":"Je ne ressens plus de col\u00e8re"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>La v\u00e9rit\u00e9 \u00e9tait difficile \u00e0 obtenir dans ma famille. Grandir avec un p\u00e8re handicap\u00e9 et lunatique souffrant de douleurs chroniques et de nombreux probl\u00e8mes de sant\u00e9 n\u2019\u00e9tait pas l\u2019exp\u00e9rience la plus facile pour un jeune enfant. Le pire, c\u2019est que nous n\u2019en avons jamais parl\u00e9 et que nous n\u2019avons jamais admis qu\u2019il \u00e9tait frustrant et bouleversant de vivre avec ces d\u00e9fis. En tant que famille, nous avons fait semblant qu\u2019il allait bien et nous avons fait de notre mieux pour para\u00eetre comme des gens aussi normaux que possible pour le monde ext\u00e9rieur. Je pensais que, tant que personne ne venait \u00e0 l\u2019int\u00e9rieur pour voir le fauteuil roulant, la jambe de bois, les b\u00e9quilles et les fournitures m\u00e9dicales ou pour remarquer les ambulances qui arrivaient tard le soir, personne ne saurait que ma famille n\u2019\u00e9tait pas tout \u00e0 fait normale.<\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s la mort de mon p\u00e8re et alors que j\u2019\u00e9tais un adolescent vivant avec un beau-p\u00e8re alcoolique, je ne pensais pas que les choses avaient beaucoup chang\u00e9. J\u2019\u00e9tais devenu tellement engourdi par mes sentiments \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9gard de ma famille que le voir ivre mort tous les soirs ne me faisait m\u00eame plus honte. Comme d\u2019habitude, la priorit\u00e9 de la famille \u00e9tait d\u2019agir comme si tout allait bien, alors nous avons balay\u00e9 son alcoolisme sous le m\u00eame tapis que nous avions balay\u00e9 les probl\u00e8mes de mon p\u00e8re. De toute fa\u00e7on, j\u2019avais l\u2019impression que personne ne se souciait de ce que je ressentais ou pensais.<\/p>\n<p>Quand je suis arriv\u00e9 \u00e0 Al-Anon au milieu de la trentaine, j\u2019avais vraiment besoin d\u2019entendre la v\u00e9rit\u00e9, et cette v\u00e9rit\u00e9, comme je l\u2019ai d\u00e9couverte! Lors des r\u00e9unions, les membres parlaient avec franchise de n\u00e9gligence et de mauvais traitements. Ils r\u00e9v\u00e9laient leurs secrets les plus profonds et parlaient ouvertement de la fa\u00e7on dont ils avaient r\u00e9agi de fa\u00e7on inad\u00e9quate face aux probl\u00e8mes caus\u00e9s par les alcooliques dans leur vie. Les membres pleuraient et riaient. Une partie de moi avait l\u2019impression d\u2019avoir atterri au paradis, et une autre partie \u00e9tait terrifi\u00e9e \u00e0 l\u2019id\u00e9e de devenir moi-m\u00eame honn\u00eate. L\u2019un des plus grands cadeaux que j\u2019ai re\u00e7us \u00e0 Al-Anon est d\u2019apprendre \u00e0 dire ma v\u00e9rit\u00e9, non pas dans la col\u00e8re, comme je l\u2019ai fait quand j\u2019\u00e9tais adolescent, mais clairement, sans excuses, et sans honte ni culpabilit\u00e9. Gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 la pr\u00e9sence aimante d\u2019autres membres engag\u00e9s \u00e0 \u00eatre honn\u00eates, je peux accomplir ce que ma famille avait \u00e9t\u00e9 incapable de faire\u00a0: accepter ma v\u00e9ritable histoire, ce \u00e0 quoi je suis confront\u00e9 et comment j\u2019y fais face. Ce n\u2019est peut-\u00eatre pas parfait, mais c\u2019est r\u00e9el. Aujourd\u2019hui, gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 Al-Anon, je peux y arriver.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Dylan M., New York<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>ao\u00fbt 2019<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,221],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26340","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-perema-mere-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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