{"id":25437,"date":"2019-07-03T14:42:54","date_gmt":"2019-07-03T18:42:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=25437"},"modified":"2020-06-24T14:28:50","modified_gmt":"2020-06-24T18:28:50","slug":"pas-un-acte-de-lachete-mais-un-acte-de-courage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/pas-un-acte-de-lachete-mais-un-acte-de-courage\/","title":{"rendered":"Pas un acte de l\u00e2chet\u00e9, mais un acte de courage"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Lorsque mon conjoint a pris sa retraite, son comportement a chang\u00e9. Je ne comprenais pas ce qui se passait, surtout lorsqu\u2019il est devenu agressif verbalement envers moi pour des choses insignifiantes. J\u2019ai trouv\u00e9 sur Internet l\u2019histoire d\u2019une personne qui d\u00e9crivait ce qu\u2019elle appelait l\u2019ivresse mentale. Les comportements qu\u2019elle \u00e9num\u00e9rait correspondaient \u00e0 ceux de mon conjoint et elle sugg\u00e9rait Al\u2011Anon. Ma premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union a \u00e9t\u00e9 difficile. Je suis arriv\u00e9e t\u00f4t et je suis rest\u00e9e dans ma voiture, terrifi\u00e9e \u00e0 l\u2019id\u00e9e d\u2019entrer. J\u2019avais tellement honte d\u2019\u00eatre incapable de g\u00e9rer cette situation toute seule. J\u2019ai failli retourner chez moi, mais quelque chose au fond de moi m\u2019a donn\u00e9 le courage de rester.<\/p>\n<p>Le groupe \u00e9tait accueillant et attentionn\u00e9, mais j\u2019ai vite compris que les membres de cette r\u00e9union ne me convenaient pas vraiment. Arm\u00e9e d\u2019une liste d\u2019autres r\u00e9unions dans notre r\u00e9gion, j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 en essayer d\u2019autres. Il m\u2019a quand m\u00eame fallu de grands efforts pour me rendre sur les lieux de ma deuxi\u00e8me r\u00e9union, mais c\u2019\u00e9tait beaucoup plus facile que la premi\u00e8re. Je commen\u00e7ais \u00e0 voir que ce n\u2019\u00e9tait pas un acte de l\u00e2chet\u00e9 d\u2019assister aux r\u00e9unions, mais un acte de bravoure. Je sais maintenant que je ne suis pas seule et le t\u00e9moignage de chacun des membres m\u2019aide \u00e0 d\u00e9couvrir certaines des forces qui sommeillent en moi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Par Mary, Colombie-Britannique<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum<\/em>, avril 2019<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[347,220,225],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-le-lien","category-mon-compagnonma-compagne-alcoolique","category-mon-conjointma-conjointe-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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