{"id":19099,"date":"2018-09-27T13:50:15","date_gmt":"2018-09-27T17:50:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=19099\/"},"modified":"2018-09-27T15:46:26","modified_gmt":"2018-09-27T19:46:26","slug":"je-visais-la-perfection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/fr\/blog\/je-visais-la-perfection\/","title":{"rendered":"Je visais la perfection"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>J\u2019ai toujours \u00e9t\u00e9 solitaire, ind\u00e9pendante et au contr\u00f4le de ma vie. J\u2019ai \u00e9lev\u00e9 deux enfants toute seule et je consid\u00e8re que j\u2019ai r\u00e9ussi en tant que m\u00e8re. Apr\u00e8s tout, mon enfance \u00e9tait si d\u00e9plaisante que je n\u2019avais d\u2019autre choix que de faire tout le contraire de ce qu\u2019avaient fait mes parents. J\u2019\u00e9tais d\u00e9termin\u00e9e \u00e0 tout faire parfaitement!<\/p>\n<p>Mais sur mon chemin vers la perfection, quelque chose est all\u00e9 de travers\u2026 \u00c0 l\u2019adolescence, ma fille s\u2019est tourn\u00e9e vers l\u2019alcool pour m\u00e9dicamenter ses sympt\u00f4mes maniaco-d\u00e9pressifs. Comme elle traversait des ann\u00e9es d\u2019adolescence difficiles, j\u2019ai essay\u00e9 de dissimuler le d\u00e9sordre et le chaos qui envahissaient notre foyer. Apr\u00e8s tout, vue de l\u2019ext\u00e9rieur, notre famille avait l\u2019air comp\u00e9tente et r\u00e9ussie.<\/p>\n<p>Il \u00e9tait hors de question que je partage l\u2019histoire de ma vie avec d\u2019autres personnes. Toutefois, apr\u00e8s avoir vu les progr\u00e8s d\u2019un membre de ma famille en r\u00e9tablissement, j\u2019ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9, \u00e0 contrec\u0153ur, d\u2019essayer Al-Anon. Lors de la premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union, j\u2019ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que mes \u00e9motions n\u2019avaient rien d\u2019unique. J\u2019ai entendu des exp\u00e9riences semblables \u00e0 la mienne \u2013 je n\u2019avais plus le sentiment d\u2019\u00eatre seule; \u00e0 essayer de remettre de l\u2019ordre dans ma famille sans aucune aide.<\/p>\n<p>Au d\u00e9but, j\u2019ai entrepris le travail des Douze \u00c9tapes Al-Anon dans ma t\u00eate, mais pas dans mon c\u0153ur. Il m\u2019a fallu longtemps avant de r\u00e9aliser que la cl\u00e9 de la s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 \u00e9tait la patience et la r\u00e9p\u00e9tition. J\u2019avais tellement l\u2019habitude du chaos que la s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 semblait au premier abord un concept quelque peu ennuyeux. Mais, peu \u00e0 peu, la s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 est devenue un mode de vie apaisant et elle le reste aujourd\u2019hui.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c0 cette premi\u00e8re r\u00e9union, le slogan qui m\u2019a sembl\u00e9 le plus m\u00e9morable \u00e9tait\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Revenez!\u00a0\u00bb Peu \u00e0 peu, aller aux r\u00e9unions est devenu une habitude. Un slogan en particulier a pr\u00e9serv\u00e9 ma s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 et celle de ma fille\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Prenez ce qui vous pla\u00eet et laissez le reste!\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Par Carolyn K., Ohio<\/em><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Al-Anon face \u00e0 l\u2019alcoolisme 2019<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[272,222],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19099","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-al-anon-face-a-lalcoolisme","category-mon-enfant-alcoolique"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - 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