{"id":4315,"date":"2017-04-24T11:01:55","date_gmt":"2017-04-24T15:01:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/al-anon.idevdesign.net\/?p=4315\/"},"modified":"2017-07-27T11:43:29","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T15:43:29","slug":"le-puse-atencion-las-similitudes-no-las-diferencias","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/le-puse-atencion-las-similitudes-no-las-diferencias\/","title":{"rendered":"Le puse atenci\u00f3n a las similitudes, no a las diferencias"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p style=\"text-align: left;\">Una amiga m\u00eda dice que en la cara de todos los miembros de Al\u2011Anon deber\u00eda haber un holograma cada vez que un reci\u00e9n llegado viene a una reuni\u00f3n. El holograma ser\u00eda una imagen de cada miembro tal como se ve\u00eda en esa primera reuni\u00f3n. El m\u00edo mostrar\u00eda el estado de desorden y p\u00e1nico, tal vez con los brazos cruzados para mantener a la gente alejada. Creo que ese holograma podr\u00eda consolar a las personas que entran y hacerles saber que todos hemos estado donde est\u00e1n ellas.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Estaba muy enojada, asustada y confundida. No creo haber venido para averiguar c\u00f3mo lograr la sobriedad de un alcoh\u00f3lico, pues ya lo hab\u00eda intentado todo. Un vecino me hab\u00eda sugerido que ir a Al\u2011Anon me podr\u00eda ayudar, pues yo estaba preocupada de que la locura que hab\u00eda visto en mi familia pudiera ser contagiosa. Yo no quer\u00eda ser parte del grupo. No tenia ning\u00fan deseo de \u00abseguir viniendo\u00bb, as\u00ed que le puse atenci\u00f3n a las diferencias: \u00c9l estaba afectado por sus padres, ella por un hijo, y ustedes por una hija. Hab\u00eda muchas personas cuya bebida me molestaba. Las situaciones de ustedes eran diferentes. Ustedes eran diferentes. Yo no tenia cabida, y realmente no era parte del grupo. Para ser sincera, no creo haber escuchada nada en mi primera reuni\u00f3n sin que lo filtrara por medio de \u00abesa no soy yo\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Volv\u00ed a hablar con mi vecino, y \u00e9l me coment\u00f3 acerca de ponerle atenci\u00f3n a las similitudes. Me inst\u00f3 a intentarlo de nuevo. Volv\u00ed, y los milagros empezaron. Escuch\u00e9 los sentimientos, y esos eran mis sentimientos. En mi segunda reuni\u00f3n, conclu\u00ed que ustedes han estado leyendo mi correo. A\u00fan no quer\u00eda ser parte del grupo. A\u00fan estaba enojada, asustada y confundida; pero hab\u00eda otro sentimiento que naci\u00f3 ese d\u00eda: esperanza. Descubr\u00ed que la esperanza estaba en el fondo de la Caja de Pandora de mis sentimientos.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Segu\u00ed viniendo. Fui capaz de identificar sentimientos por encima de la ira, el temor y la confusi\u00f3n. Fui capaz de hablar de ellos con otros miembros, y fui capaz de soltar las riendas de los mismos. Para m\u00ed, el compartir fue (y sigue siendo) quiz\u00e1 el instrumento m\u00e1s poderoso del programa de Al\u2011Anon. El concepto que tengo de un Poder Superior requiri\u00f3 mucho trabajo. Cuando escuch\u00e9 a los miembros compartir, ellos me dieron ideas sobre d\u00f3nde tenia que ajustar mi comprensi\u00f3n, y escuch\u00e9 a mi Poder Superior en las palabras de ellos.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Segu\u00ed viniendo. Fui capaz de edificar relaciones saludables, de establecer l\u00edmites y de amar incondicionalmente. Aprend\u00ed todo eso. Segu\u00ed viniendo. Empec\u00e9 a transmitirles a los dem\u00e1s lo que me hab\u00edan dado a m\u00ed para entretenerme y de forma gratuita. Al transmitirlo, lo aprend\u00ed. Realmente lo aprend\u00ed. \u00a1Gracias por dejar que me aliviara!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Claudia M., Arizona<\/em><br \/>\n<em>The Forum<\/em>, octubre de 2016<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[256,209,212,208,211,213],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4315","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-para-amigos-alcoholicos","category-para-conyuges-y-parejas-alcoholicos","category-para-hermanos-alcoholicos","category-para-hijos-alcoholicos","category-para-nietos","category-para-padres-alcoholicos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - 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