{"id":41297,"date":"2024-02-29T10:15:17","date_gmt":"2024-02-29T15:15:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=41297"},"modified":"2024-03-05T11:18:33","modified_gmt":"2024-03-05T16:18:33","slug":"deje-de-proporcionar-un-nido-comodo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/deje-de-proporcionar-un-nido-comodo\/","title":{"rendered":"Dej\u00e9 de proporcionar un nido c\u00f3modo"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Cuando una madre \u00e1guila construye su nido, utiliza ramas grandes y espinas afiladas como sus materiales fundamentales. Luego lo recubre con capas de plumas, pelaje y musgo para que sea un espacio c\u00f3modo y seguro para sus huevos y, posteriormente, para los aguiluchos. A medida que crecen, ella comienza a quitarles el revestimiento suave y los expone a las espinas afiladas. El nido se vuelve inc\u00f3modo hasta el punto que los aguiluchos se han hartado y est\u00e1n listos para salir y volar por s\u00ed solos. La madre \u00e1guila sabe por instinto que, mientras el nido sea un lugar c\u00f3modo por un tiempo prolongado, m\u00e1s tiempo se quedar\u00e1n los aguiluchos y no saldr\u00e1n de all\u00ed por su cuenta.<\/p>\n<p>En Al\u2011Anon, aprend\u00ed que, mientras protegiera a mi ser querido y mientras arreglara sus situaciones, estaba creando un \u00abnido\u00bb c\u00f3modo. En \u00faltima instancia, estaba empeorando las cosas a largo plazo, porque propiciaba la conducta del alcoh\u00f3lico con mis acciones. No le estaba permitiendo a mi ser querido la dignidad de encontrar su propia recuperaci\u00f3n. A la misma vez, hab\u00eda cierto nivel de comodidad para m\u00ed al intentar proteger y controlar la situaci\u00f3n. No hace falta decir que este consuelo me daba un falso sentido de la realidad.<\/p>\n<p>Con el tiempo, y gracias a mi recuperaci\u00f3n en Al\u2011Anon, me di cuenta de muchas cosas. Entend\u00ed que yo no causaba, no pod\u00eda controlar y no pod\u00eda curar la enfermedad del alcoholismo. Sin embargo, contribu\u00eda a la situaci\u00f3n al propiciar oportunidades al alcoh\u00f3lico con mi conducta, por amor y miedo. Llegu\u00e9 a comprender la importancia del Primer Paso: que soy incapaz de afrontar solo la enfermedad del alcoholismo, as\u00ed como otras personas, lugares, cosas y situaciones.<\/p>\n<p>Una vez que me sal\u00ed del camino, pude concentrarme m\u00e1s en m\u00ed y menos en \u00e9l. As\u00ed le permit\u00ed asumir la responsabilidad de s\u00ed mismo cuando \u00e9l estaba dispuesto y era capaz de hacerlo. Al igual que la madre \u00e1guila, llegu\u00e9 a comprender que mi ser querido ten\u00eda que seguir adelante por su cuenta y estuve dispuesto a desprenderme con amor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Mike S., Florida<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum<\/em>, enero de 2024<\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede reimprimir este art\u00edculo en el sitio web de su rama de servicio o en su bolet\u00edn, junto con la nota de reconocimiento siguiente:\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Reimpreso con el permiso de <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginia, EE. 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