{"id":40750,"date":"2023-12-19T16:13:07","date_gmt":"2023-12-19T21:13:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=40750"},"modified":"2024-01-04T13:16:15","modified_gmt":"2024-01-04T18:16:15","slug":"una-mejor-relacion-con-mi-hijo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/una-mejor-relacion-con-mi-hijo\/","title":{"rendered":"Una mejor relaci\u00f3n con mi hijo"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Un resultado inesperado de trabajar en mi programa de Al\u2011Anon ha sido que ha mejorado la relaci\u00f3n con mi hijo, quien es mi ser querido alcoh\u00f3lico. Darme cuenta de que soy incapaz de afrontar sola sus decisiones y su estilo de vida me ha ayudado a desprenderme de \u00e9l. Tambi\u00e9n me preocupa su hermana, quien se ha visto afectada por la enfermedad familiar. Si tengo un mal d\u00eda o una mala noche porque estoy obsesionada con ellos, imagino que mi Poder Superior los sostiene y me dice: \u00abTengo esto en mis manos\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Aprender a escuchar a mi hijo y no darle consejos ha sido clave, adem\u00e1s de no hacerle demasiadas preguntas ni intentar manipularlo. En nuestras conversaciones, procuramos hablar de temas neutrales, normalmente nuestros perros y su m\u00fasica. Me ha deleitado con conciertos improvisados o v\u00eddeos, y atesoro estas experiencias.<\/p>\n<p>Recientemente, hice una inc\u00f3moda reparaci\u00f3n de un mal que caus\u00e9, por algunos abusos que \u00e9l sufri\u00f3 cuando era ni\u00f1o y adolescente. M\u00e1s tarde, \u00e9l volvi\u00f3 a tocar el tema y me sent\u00ed bien al escuchar su punto de vista. Eso me ayud\u00f3 a dejar de lado mi verg\u00fcenza y culpa por no haber hecho m\u00e1s para ayudarlo. Voy mejorando al aceptar a mi hijo tal como es: al amar a la persona y odiar su enfermedad.<\/p>\n<p>Hasta hace poco, mi casa estaba llena de fotograf\u00edas de \u00abantes\u00bb: fotos de mi hijo antes de convertirse en un adolescente rebelde, antes de todo el tiempo que pas\u00f3 castigado en la escuela y luego el tiempo en prisi\u00f3n, y antes de su intento de suicidio. Guard\u00e9 esas fotos y hoy muestro fotos de como \u00e9l es ahora. Hacer eso me ayud\u00f3 mucho a aceptar la situaci\u00f3n que vivimos y dejar de lado las preguntas: <em>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 \u00e9l? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 a nosotros?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>No s\u00e9 qu\u00e9 deparar\u00e1 el futuro para m\u00ed y para \u00e9l. Pero puedo aceptar que el futuro est\u00e1 bajo el control de mi Poder Superior y que mi hijo tiene su propio Poder Superior.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Mary S., Arizona<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>diciembre de 2023<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede reimprimir este art\u00edculo en el sitio web de su rama de servicio o en su bolet<\/strong><strong>\u00edn<\/strong><strong>, junto con la nota de reconocimiento siguiente:\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Reimpreso con el permiso de <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginia. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[348,208],"tags":[522],"class_list":["post-40750","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-accion","category-para-hijos-alcoholicos","tag-alcoholismo"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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