{"id":38125,"date":"2022-12-29T16:18:28","date_gmt":"2022-12-29T21:18:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=38125"},"modified":"2022-12-29T16:18:28","modified_gmt":"2022-12-29T21:18:28","slug":"si-pertenezco-a-al-anon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/si-pertenezco-a-al-anon\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00abS\u00ed\u00bb pertenezco a Al-Anon"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Toda mi vida he luchado por sentir que pertenezco. Como era la \u00fanica ni\u00f1a en casa, me sent\u00eda marcadamente diferente de mis tres hermanos. Debido a que era una \u00absentidora\u00bb en una familia de \u00abpensadores\u00bb, me sent\u00eda marginada. Salir del cl\u00f3set como lesbiana cuando ten\u00eda 20 a\u00f1os no hizo nada para mitigar mis sentimientos de ser \u00abdiferente\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, no es de sorprender que literalmente me tom\u00f3 a\u00f1os de asistir a las reuniones para sentir que realmente pertenec\u00eda a Al\u2011Anon. Y no ten\u00eda nada que ver con ser lesbiana. Sent\u00eda que no pertenec\u00eda a Al\u2011Anon porque no hab\u00eda crecido con el alcoholismo, nunca hab\u00eda tenido una relaci\u00f3n sentimental con un alcoh\u00f3lico y no hab\u00eda alcoholismo en mi familia.<\/p>\n<p>La Tercera Tradici\u00f3n dice: \u00abEl \u00fanico requisito para ser miembro es tener un pariente o amigo con un problema de alcoholismo\u00bb. Ten\u00eda amigos que eran alcoh\u00f3licos en recuperaci\u00f3n, as\u00ed que los usaba para \u00abjustificar\u00bb mi asistencia a las reuniones. Nadie cuestion\u00f3 nunca mi derecho a estar en una reuni\u00f3n, pero me sent\u00eda como una impostora.<\/p>\n<p>Aun as\u00ed, segu\u00ed viniendo. Sab\u00eda que Al\u2011Anon me estaba ayudando. Sab\u00eda que me hab\u00eda dado instrumentos para tratar con mi compa\u00f1era de trabajo cuyo comportamiento err\u00e1tico reflejaba el de su madre alcoh\u00f3lica. Me di cuenta de que mis dos parejas a largo plazo \u2014ambas eran hijas adultas de alcoh\u00f3licos\u2014hab\u00edan sido afectadas por el sistema alcoh\u00f3lico en el que se hab\u00edan criado. Y que, a su vez, yo tambi\u00e9n me hab\u00eda afectado.<\/p>\n<p>Y luego, cuando hab\u00eda estado en el programa unos 15 a\u00f1os, mi hijo adulto vino a m\u00ed en busca de ayuda debido a su problema con la bebida. Me dijo que era alcoh\u00f3lico. No sab\u00eda nada sobre el alcance de su comportamiento con la bebida ni la devastaci\u00f3n que eso estaba causando en su vida. Pero \u00e9l sab\u00eda que yo sab\u00eda algo sobre el alcoholismo. Y \u00e9l sab\u00eda que estaba a salvo al venir a m\u00ed en busca de ayuda. Debido a esto, yo sent\u00eda un agradecimiento inmenso por Al\u2011Anon.<\/p>\n<p>Entonces, ten\u00eda una raz\u00f3n \u00ableg\u00edtima\u00bb para estar en Al\u2011Anon. Sin embargo, ya no necesitaba esa legitimaci\u00f3n. En alg\u00fan momento en el camino, llegu\u00e9 a creer que pertenec\u00eda a Al\u2011Anon. Me di cuenta de que no necesitaba buscar una justificaci\u00f3n fuera de m\u00ed. Sab\u00eda que el programa de Al\u2011Anon me hab\u00eda dado los pasos e instrumentos para mantenerme cuerda en relaciones que ten\u00edan el potencial de la falta de sano juicio. Hab\u00eda aprendido que realmente pertenec\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Patricia B.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>noviembre de 2022<\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede reimprimir este art\u00edculo en el sitio web de su rama de servicio o en su bolet\u00edn, junto con la nota de reconocimiento siguiente:\u00a0Reimpreso con el permiso de <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[348,256,208],"tags":[432,512],"class_list":["post-38125","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-accion","category-para-amigos-alcoholicos","category-para-hijos-alcoholicos","tag-hijos-adultos","tag-lgbtqa-es"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - 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