{"id":37275,"date":"2022-08-25T16:22:59","date_gmt":"2022-08-25T20:22:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=37275"},"modified":"2022-08-25T16:23:07","modified_gmt":"2022-08-25T20:23:07","slug":"del-dolor-a-la-sanacion-y-a-ofrecer-ayuda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/del-dolor-a-la-sanacion-y-a-ofrecer-ayuda\/","title":{"rendered":"Del dolor, a la sanaci\u00f3n y a ofrecer ayuda"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Antes de entrar a las salas de Al\u2011Anon, viv\u00eda seg\u00fan el lema: \u00abLo que no me mata me hace m\u00e1s fuerte\u00bb. Gracioso, \u00bfno? La realidad fue que termin\u00e9 lastim\u00e1ndome una y otra vez. Ser golpeado repetidamente, ya sea emocional, mental o espiritualmente, a menudo me dejaba en un estado de debilidad. Solo ten\u00eda instrumentos rudimentarios para evitar que me lastimaran.<\/p>\n<p>Llegu\u00e9 a Al\u2011Anon hace m\u00e1s de 11 a\u00f1os, herido y debilitado m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de lo que hab\u00eda experimentado antes. La polic\u00eda del campus encontr\u00f3 a mi hijo borracho, desmayado y expuesto a la intemperie. Al\u2011Anon me ayud\u00f3 a distinguir qu\u00e9 dolor era m\u00edo y cu\u00e1l era suyo (desprendimiento), a confiar en mi Poder Superior y pedir Su ayuda, y a reconocer la diferencia entre ayudar y propiciar la conducta de mi hijo. Entend\u00eda estos conceptos intelectualmente, pero era muy diferente sentirlos y vivirlos. Al ir a las reuniones, conseguir un Padrino, leer la literatura, aprender y usar los instrumentos de Al\u2011Anon y confiar en los lemas y la Oraci\u00f3n de la Serenidad, comenc\u00e9 a sanar y crecer.<\/p>\n<p>Hace cinco a\u00f1os, supe que mi hijo hab\u00eda sido arrestado y encarcelado fuera del estado por otro delito relacionado con el alcohol. Casi me sent\u00ed como si yo fuera dos personas: uno era el padre que se ocupaba de toda la situaci\u00f3n, que hac\u00eda las llamadas telef\u00f3nicas y los arreglos para conseguirle un abogado, sacarlo de la c\u00e1rcel, etc. Una vez que lo liberaron, le entregu\u00e9 cualquier otra responsabilidad legal a \u00e9l. La segunda era un pap\u00e1 convertido en un desastre emocional. Me dol\u00eda profundamente otra vez, pero no tanto ni durante tanto tiempo como cuando entr\u00e9 al programa.<\/p>\n<p>Para m\u00ed, la sanaci\u00f3n es un proceso. No est\u00e1 completo y es posible que nunca llegue a estarlo por completo. Pero las heridas se hacen m\u00e1s peque\u00f1as cada vez que digo s\u00ed a la oportunidad de crecer al enfrentar un desaf\u00edo. Ahora no tengo que hacerlo solo. Tengo a mi Poder Superior, a mi Padrino, a mis amigos de Al\u2011Anon, a mi esposa (quien tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1 en Al\u2011Anon) y a mi hijo. Ahora act\u00fao desde una actitud de gratitud por esta enfermedad familiar. Si no la tuviera, tampoco tendr\u00eda la recuperaci\u00f3n. Me siento bendecido de poder compartir mi recuperaci\u00f3n y ofrecer un o\u00eddo atento a los dem\u00e1s para ayudarlos a encontrar lo que yo he encontrado: la bendici\u00f3n de pasar del dolor a la sanaci\u00f3n y luego a ofrecer ayuda.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Jim M., Ohio<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>agosto de 2022<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede reimprimir este art\u00edculo en el sitio web de su rama de servicio o en su bolet<\/strong><strong>\u00edn<\/strong><strong>, junto con la nota de reconocimiento siguiente:\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Reimpreso con el permiso de <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginia. <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - 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