{"id":37273,"date":"2022-08-25T16:14:58","date_gmt":"2022-08-25T20:14:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=37273"},"modified":"2022-08-25T16:15:06","modified_gmt":"2022-08-25T20:15:06","slug":"no-puedo-salvar-a-otros-del-alcoholismo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/no-puedo-salvar-a-otros-del-alcoholismo\/","title":{"rendered":"No puedo salvar a otros del alcoholismo"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Despu\u00e9s de que mi prometido muri\u00f3 por beber progresivamente, le rogu\u00e9 a Dios que me dejara morir a m\u00ed tambi\u00e9n. No hab\u00eda podido salvarlo y le hab\u00eda fallado a sus padres, quienes hab\u00edan dicho que yo era su \u00faltima esperanza. Alguien cercano a m\u00ed dijo que no entend\u00eda por qu\u00e9 alguien tan inteligente con tantas oportunidades no pod\u00eda dejar de beber. Esa pregunta intensific\u00f3 mi dolor devastador y sentimientos de p\u00e9rdida. Me sent\u00eda abandonada. En mi opini\u00f3n, la forma en que sus padres hab\u00edan respondido a su forma de beber solo aumentaba los sentimientos de culpa y verg\u00fcenza de mi prometido y le quitaban cualquier motivaci\u00f3n restante para dejar el alcohol. Yo no pod\u00eda dejar de culparlos y tener resentimientos hacia ellos.<\/p>\n<p>En sus honras f\u00fanebres, su mejor amigo, quien tiene a\u00f1os de sobriedad gracias a Alcoh\u00f3licos An\u00f3nimos, sugiri\u00f3 discretamente que tal vez asistir Al\u2011Anon pod\u00eda ser algo bueno para m\u00ed. Estaba nerviosa en mi primera reuni\u00f3n, pero descubr\u00ed que todos los presentes entend\u00edan mi situaci\u00f3n. Las personas me abrazaron y me dijeron que se alegraban de que hubiera venido. Compr\u00e9 un libro de lecturas diarias y lo le\u00eda con mi desayuno todas las ma\u00f1anas. Durante varios meses, lloraba en las reuniones. Nadie juzgaba mi dolor. Nadie me criticaba.<\/p>\n<p>He aprendido que el alcoholismo no es un problema moral y que sus padres no ten\u00edan la intenci\u00f3n de impulsarlo hacia la muerte, ni el poder para hacerlo. Me di cuenta de que yo tambi\u00e9n hab\u00eda respondido de maneras que solo sirvieron para hacerme sentir menos ansiosa temporalmente por su precario estado.<\/p>\n<p>A trav\u00e9s de Al\u2011Anon, he aprendido que mi tarea es trabajar para cambiarme a m\u00ed misma, no para salvar a otros. Me hab\u00eda enfermado tanto como mi prometido alcoh\u00f3lico fallecido. Desde que nac\u00ed, hab\u00eda vivido reaccionando al alcoholismo de alguien. Hab\u00eda pasado mi vida tratando de salvar a otros para aliviar mis propios miedos. La parte m\u00e1s importante de mi nueva conciencia es la aceptaci\u00f3n que soy incapaz de afrontar sola el alcohol y a todas las personas, lugares y cosas. La serenidad que empiezo a experimentar es un regalo inesperado de Dios.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Melinda D., Nueva Hampshire<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>julio de 2022<\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede reimprimir este art\u00edculo en el sitio web de su rama de servicio o en su bolet<\/strong><strong>\u00edn<\/strong><strong>, junto con la nota de reconocimiento siguiente:\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Reimpreso con el permiso de <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginia. <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[348,209],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37273","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-accion","category-para-conyuges-y-parejas-alcoholicos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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