{"id":36844,"date":"2022-06-27T15:39:01","date_gmt":"2022-06-27T19:39:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/?p=36844"},"modified":"2022-06-27T15:39:03","modified_gmt":"2022-06-27T19:39:03","slug":"quitarme-las-gafas-de-color-rosa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/quitarme-las-gafas-de-color-rosa\/","title":{"rendered":"Quitarme las gafas de color rosa"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Cuando me separ\u00e9 de mi primer novio despu\u00e9s de cinco a\u00f1os juntos, mi madre lleg\u00f3 para mudarme de vuelta a casa. En nuestro viaje de 12 horas, pas\u00e1bamos horas seguidas sin hablar mientras yo lloraba en silencio. En un momento rompi\u00f3 el silencio para preguntarme si me hab\u00eda acordado de empacar una toalla en mi maleta. Entonces me di cuenta de que me sent\u00eda m\u00e1s sola e invisible en el auto con ella que lo que hab\u00eda sentido en cualquier otro momento de mi ruptura.<\/p>\n<p>Tan pronto como regresamos a mi ciudad natal, busqu\u00e9 mi primera reuni\u00f3n de Al\u2011Anon. Sab\u00eda que mi madre hab\u00eda sido alcoh\u00f3lica, pero Alcoh\u00f3licos An\u00f3nimos la hab\u00eda \u00abarreglado\u00bb y ella hab\u00eda dejado de ir a las reuniones incluso antes de que yo naciera. Me preocupaba que yo no calificara para asistir a Al\u2011Anon. Sin embargo, fui recibida por todos tan pronto como llegu\u00e9. Despu\u00e9s de toda una vida con una madre que trat\u00f3 de mostrar su apoyo \u00abhaciendo\u00bb cosas por m\u00ed, fue un alivio incre\u00edble encontrar una hermandad que no <em>hizo<\/em> nada por m\u00ed, sino que se sent\u00f3 tranquilamente mientras escuchaban, reconoc\u00edan y aceptaban mis sentimientos.<\/p>\n<p>En esa misma reuni\u00f3n, dos semanas despu\u00e9s, un miembro comenz\u00f3 a hablar sobre c\u00f3mo le ocultaba el alcohol a su pareja. Esto desencaden\u00f3 el recuerdo de c\u00f3mo, durante mi relaci\u00f3n, solo pod\u00eda guardar una botella en miniatura de vino para cocinar en el refrigerador, una cantidad demasiado peque\u00f1a como para que mi pareja se emborrachara. Cuando compraba las botellitas de vino para cocinar, las escond\u00eda todas menos una en el caj\u00f3n de mi ropa interior para que mi pareja no las encontrara y tampoco se las bebiera. De repente, a mil millas de distancia y un mes despu\u00e9s de la ruptura, \u00a1me di cuenta de que hab\u00eda pasado los \u00faltimos cinco a\u00f1os de mi vida con un alcoh\u00f3lico!<\/p>\n<p>Esta revelaci\u00f3n le dio credibilidad inmediata a las lecturas y los testimonios de otros miembros sobre los patrones de alcoholismo en la familia y me inspir\u00f3 a encontrar una Madrina de inmediato, a trabajar los Pasos y desarrollar una comprensi\u00f3n de c\u00f3mo mi familia de alcoh\u00f3licos secos, pero a\u00fan disfuncionales, hab\u00eda moldeado mis ideas sobre las relaciones y mis percepciones sobre mis propias necesidades emocionales.<\/p>\n<p>Varios a\u00f1os despu\u00e9s, todav\u00eda tengo dificultades para comunicarme y conectarme emocionalmente con mi madre, pero estoy trabajando en mi programa junto con mi prometido, quien tiene diez a\u00f1os de sobriedad y un compromiso con el crecimiento que apoya e inspira el m\u00edo. Al\u2011Anon me ha quitado los lentes color de rosa de la negaci\u00f3n y me ha ayudado a verme a m\u00ed misma, a mi vida y a mis seres queridos por lo que somos en lugar de lo que creo que deber\u00edamos ser.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Audrey G., Oreg\u00f3n<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum,<\/em> junio de 2022<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede reimprimir este art\u00edculo en el sitio web de su rama de servicio o en su bolet<\/strong><strong>\u00edn<\/strong><strong>, junto con la nota de reconocimiento siguiente:\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Reimpreso con el permiso de <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginia. <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - 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