{"id":35089,"date":"2021-12-30T08:39:49","date_gmt":"2021-12-30T13:39:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=35089"},"modified":"2021-12-30T08:39:55","modified_gmt":"2021-12-30T13:39:55","slug":"hacer-las-cosas-de-una-manera-diferente-no-significa-hacer-mas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/hacer-las-cosas-de-una-manera-diferente-no-significa-hacer-mas\/","title":{"rendered":"Hacer las cosas de una manera diferente no significa hacer m\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\" style=\"--awb-text-transform:none;\"><p>Cuando me di cuenta de que mi hijo de 15 a\u00f1os beb\u00eda, lo puse en un programa de tratamiento. El personal de la instalaci\u00f3n me recomend\u00f3 que asistiera a Al\u2011Anon. Mi primer pensamiento fue: <em>\u00bfC\u00f3mo es que tengo que hacer algo m\u00e1s para ayudar a mi hijo?<\/em> Ya lo estaba llevando a tratamiento tres d\u00edas a la semana, llev\u00e1ndolo a reuniones, llev\u00e1ndolo de ida y vuelta a la escuela y monitoreando todo su tiempo. Adem\u00e1s de esto, trataba de criar a dos ni\u00f1os m\u00e1s peque\u00f1os y mantener nuestro hogar. No ten\u00eda idea de c\u00f3mo podr\u00eda hacer una cosa m\u00e1s en un horario que ni siquiera ten\u00eda espacio para lo que ya estaba tratando de lograr. Sin embargo, me di cuenta de que lo que estaba haciendo no lograba que mi hijo estuviera sobrio, porque su enfermedad progresaba a pesar de todos mis esfuerzos.<\/p>\n<p>Desesperada, asist\u00ed a mi primera reuni\u00f3n de Al\u2011Anon. Mientras escuchaba a la gente compartir sus propias experiencias, comenc\u00e9 a comprender que mis esfuerzos no iban a causar un cambio instant\u00e1neo en su enfermedad. Segu\u00ed viniendo a las reuniones y comenc\u00e9 a cambiar algunas de las cosas que estaba haciendo. Controlar a mi hijo constantemente no hab\u00eda detenido su alcoholismo, as\u00ed que comenc\u00e9 a sacar tiempo para m\u00ed y los otros miembros de la familia. Gritar, llorar, negociar y castigar tampoco detuvo su alcoholismo, as\u00ed que dej\u00e9 de hacer esas cosas tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n<p>Hubo muchos d\u00edas y noches de dolor, en los cuales mi miedo por mi hijo afectaba mi vida diaria. Pero consegu\u00ed una Madrina, comenc\u00e9 a trabajar los Pasos, a leer la Literatura Aprobada por la Conferencia, asist\u00eda a las reuniones con regularidad y desarrollaba una relaci\u00f3n con mi Poder Superior. Llegu\u00e9 a comprender que hacer de Al\u2011Anon parte de mi propia vida no era hacer <em>m\u00e1s<\/em>, era hacer las cosas <em>de manera diferente<\/em>. Las cosas que aprend\u00ed en Al\u2011Anon me ayudaron a identificar mis intenciones y a comprender que rescatar a mi hijo de las consecuencias de su enfermedad no lo estaba ayudando a \u00e9l ni a m\u00ed. Tambi\u00e9n aprend\u00ed a trabajar en una relaci\u00f3n amorosa con mi hijo.<\/p>\n<p>Hoy, despu\u00e9s de varios a\u00f1os de alcoholismo, mi hijo est\u00e1 sobrio. Ahora es un adulto y tenemos una relaci\u00f3n de amor y respeto. Me he convertido en una mejor madre y persona al asistir a Al\u2011Anon y aplicar los principios del programa en todas las \u00e1reas de mi vida.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Tracy G.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>noviembre de 2021<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede reimprimir este art\u00edculo en el sitio web de su rama de servicio o en su bolet<\/strong><strong>\u00edn<\/strong><strong>, junto con la nota de reconocimiento siguiente: Reimpreso con el permiso de <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginia. <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[348,208],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35089","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-accion","category-para-hijos-alcoholicos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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