{"id":34643,"date":"2021-10-22T15:17:12","date_gmt":"2021-10-22T19:17:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=34643"},"modified":"2021-10-22T15:17:18","modified_gmt":"2021-10-22T19:17:18","slug":"todavia-aprendo-y-crezco","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/todavia-aprendo-y-crezco\/","title":{"rendered":"Todav\u00eda aprendo y crezco"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\" style=\"--awb-text-transform:none;\"><p>Asist\u00ed a mi primera reuni\u00f3n de Al\u2011Anon en Harare, Zimbabwe, en 1979. Desde entonces, el programa me ha ayudado a superar muchas crisis, incluido el suicidio de mi hijo a los 18 a\u00f1os en 1994 y la muerte de mi esposo dos meses despu\u00e9s en accidente de autom\u00f3vil, causado por su intoxicaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando entr\u00e9 a esa sala de reuniones de Al\u2011Anon por primera vez, mi vida estaba centrada en mi esposo alcoh\u00f3lico y mis dos hijos peque\u00f1os. Mi miseria, miedo y desesperaci\u00f3n fueron profundos. Esperaba que la mujer sentada en la sala me dijera c\u00f3mo lograr que mi esposo dejara de beber y c\u00f3mo crear una vida feliz para mis hijos. Ella no pod\u00eda hacer eso, pero esa reuni\u00f3n me llev\u00f3 a un camino que me devolvi\u00f3 la cordura. El traslado de nuestra familia a los Estados Unidos en 1990 me puso en contacto con la mujer que se convirti\u00f3 en mi Madrina. Al trabajar los Pasos con ella, comenc\u00e9 a crecer y a recuperarme.<\/p>\n<p>Escribir un diario fue (y sigue siendo) una herramienta que me ayud\u00f3 a tomar consciencia de mis emociones y de m\u00ed misma. Recientemente, revisando algunos escritos antiguos, record\u00e9 c\u00f3mo, en 1992, mi esposo Andy me habl\u00f3 de su atracci\u00f3n hacia otra mujer. Sent\u00ed mucho dolor, rechazo y tristeza por esto, pero gracias a Al\u2011Anon, lo reconoc\u00ed como una manifestaci\u00f3n de su enfermedad. Me llam\u00f3 particularmente la atenci\u00f3n lo que escrib\u00ed en mi diario el 24 de julio de 1992:<\/p>\n<p>\u00abNo puedo hacer que Andy me ame. Todo lo que puedo hacer es aceptarlo como es. Su falta de amor por m\u00ed, que duele, no es algo que est\u00e9 haciendo deliberadamente. Necesito volverme m\u00e1s plenamente yo misma, mejorar y desarrollar mis propios talentos. Soy fuerte. Puedo inspirar y generar nuevas ideas. Puedo aceptar, amar, dar y ser emp\u00e1tica. Puedo ser completamente yo, con o sin el amor y la aprobaci\u00f3n de Andy\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Con el amor, el aliento y el ejemplo de las personas en el programa, volv\u00ed a la escuela y obtuve un t\u00edtulo que me permiti\u00f3 ser completamente autosuficiente despu\u00e9s de la muerte de mi esposo.<\/p>\n<p>He escuchado que atraemos a las personas con el mismo nivel de recuperaci\u00f3n y madurez que tenemos nosotros. En 1999, conoc\u00ed a un hombre con quien encontr\u00e9 una gran felicidad. Pasamos 16 a\u00f1os maravillosos juntos antes de que \u00e9l falleciera en 2016.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u2011Anon me anim\u00f3 con el lema \u00abVive y deja vivir\u00bb. Encontr\u00e9 actividades que me energizaron y me dieron alegr\u00eda. Sigo asistiendo a las reuniones y comparto mi experiencia, fortaleza y esperanza. La \u00fanica forma en que puedo compensar en peque\u00f1a medida los incre\u00edbles regalos que este programa me ha dado es present\u00e1ndome en las reuniones y transmitiendo la sabidur\u00eda que otros han compartido conmigo. Encuentro una alegr\u00eda tremenda al ver que otras personas van m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de su dolor y comienzan a crecer y sanar como lo hice yo. Todav\u00eda estoy aprendiendo y creciendo en el programa, porque Al\u2011Anon funciona cuando yo lo vivo.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Elizabeth N., Carolina del Norte<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>septiembre de 2021<\/p>\n<p><strong>Puede reimprimir este art\u00edculo en el sitio web de su rama de servicio o en su bolet\u00edn, junto con la nota de reconocimiento siguiente:\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Reimpreso con el permiso de <em>The Forum<\/em>, Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc., Virginia Beach, Virginia<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[348,209],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34643","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-accion","category-para-conyuges-y-parejas-alcoholicos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.0 - 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