{"id":27613,"date":"2020-03-02T16:34:21","date_gmt":"2020-03-02T21:34:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=27613"},"modified":"2020-03-02T16:34:23","modified_gmt":"2020-03-02T21:34:23","slug":"seguir-adelante","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/seguir-adelante\/","title":{"rendered":"Seguir adelante"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Recuerdo el dolor de lidiar con mi compa\u00f1ero alcoh\u00f3lico en el \u00e1rea de la intimidad. Aunque \u00e9l estaba justo al lado m\u00edo, yo estaba sola y a\u00f1oraba el contacto humano, la calidez y el afecto. Pasaban meses y yo no recib\u00eda nada de \u00e9l, salvo una fr\u00eda indiferencia. No quer\u00eda dejarlo ni ser infiel, pero tampoco pod\u00eda soportar el vac\u00edo que sent\u00eda en mi interior. Siempre que mencionaba el tema, \u00e9l se alejaba y dec\u00eda que yo no era atractiva, que estaba sobrepeso o que yo no era su tipo. Por lo regular me hac\u00eda sentir culpable por buscar atenci\u00f3n, dici\u00e9ndome que yo necesitaba demasiado. Durante algunos meses, me daba por vencida del intento de iniciar una conexi\u00f3n m\u00e1s profunda hasta que mi a\u00f1oranza se volv\u00eda insoportable nuevamente. Literalmente, clamaba a gritos por la frustraci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>No fue hasta mucho despu\u00e9s que descubr\u00ed la realidad de la situaci\u00f3n. El alcoholismo le hab\u00eda quitado su capacidad de responder f\u00edsicamente, y \u00e9l descargaba su verg\u00fcenza sobre m\u00ed. Pero, para ese momento, ya yo hab\u00eda comenzado a cuestionar mi propia cordura. <em>\u00bfRealmente yo estaba pidiendo mucho?<\/em> Me preguntaba. Despu\u00e9s de todo, yo hab\u00eda aprendido en Al\u2011Anon que la expectativa es un resentimiento premeditado.<\/p>\n<p>Pero con el tiempo, me di cuenta de que era in\u00fatil esperar que esta persona me diera algo que simplemente no ten\u00eda. Sin embargo, yo tambi\u00e9n me esforzaba in\u00fatilmente a tratar de aprender a ser feliz sin amor y afecto. Aprend\u00ed que mis necesidades eran leg\u00edtimas y no eran irrazonables en una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica mon\u00f3gama, pero tuve que aceptar su elecci\u00f3n de no satisfacer esas necesidades. Y, mientras permaneci\u00e9ramos juntos, yo no era libre para buscar una nueva relaci\u00f3n que pudiera satisfacer mejor esas necesidades. A final de cuentas, encontr\u00e9 la serenidad que necesitaba para desprenderme con amor y separarme de \u00e9l. Aunque \u00e9l contin\u00faa con su enfermedad activa, seguimos siendo amigos hoy en d\u00eda. Ahora veo que tal vez eso fue lo que debimos haber sido desde el principio.<\/p>\n<p>Con el tiempo, conoc\u00ed a un hombre gentil y bondadoso que es todo lo que podr\u00eda haber deseado. Hemos decidido esperar a que la intimidad f\u00edsica ocurra hasta despu\u00e9s del matrimonio, y esa decisi\u00f3n ha permitido que nuestra conexi\u00f3n emocional y espiritual crezca. Cuando llegu\u00e9 a creer que merec\u00eda m\u00e1s, lo encontr\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Autumn M., Maryland<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum<\/em>, enero de 2020<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[348,209],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27613","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-accion","category-para-conyuges-y-parejas-alcoholicos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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