{"id":27345,"date":"2020-01-31T13:55:04","date_gmt":"2020-01-31T18:55:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=27345"},"modified":"2020-04-07T14:10:29","modified_gmt":"2020-04-07T18:10:29","slug":"dondequiera-que-vaya","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/dondequiera-que-vaya\/","title":{"rendered":"Dondequiera que vaya\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Desde muy temprana edad, supuse que, si pod\u00eda lograr que mi madre dejara de estar tan furiosa con mi pap\u00e1, entonces todo estar\u00eda bien en mi mundo. Fue entonces que comenz\u00f3 mi ca\u00f3tica b\u00fasqueda del tesoro. A los cinco a\u00f1os, descifr\u00e9 c\u00f3mo decir la hora, pero no gracias a la gram\u00e1tica tradicional de la educaci\u00f3n escolar. En vez de ello, fue por las comidas fr\u00edas que permanec\u00edan sin ser probadas mientras mi hermana y yo nos sent\u00e1bamos a la mesa y ve\u00edamos a nuestra madre hervir de coraje en el momento en el que el tintineo de las llaves abr\u00eda la puerta de la cocina y nuestro pap\u00e1 entraba tambaleando.<\/p>\n<p>Yo sent\u00eda un agujero en el est\u00f3mago. Iba directo al lavabo para deshacerme de aquellas n\u00e1useas persistentes, con la esperanza (aunque no era consciente de ello entonces) de distraer a mi mam\u00e1 de su ira hacia pap\u00e1 y unirlos para que ayudaran a su hija. Y eso funcion\u00f3 durante mucho tiempo. A medida que fui creciendo, la cacer\u00eda por tener paz en casa se torn\u00f3 m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil porque solamente pod\u00eda fingir estar enferma por un tiempo. As\u00ed que me convert\u00ed en una charlatana, una negociadora juvenil. Desarroll\u00e9 el talento de contar historias solo para crear distracciones de lo que era obvio: que mi pap\u00e1 era un borracho y mi madre estaba furiosa.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando era adolescente, me encontr\u00e9 inmersa en el mundo de la poes\u00eda, el teatro y el arte de la escuela secundaria, los cuales me salvaron del secreto que me sofocaba en nuestro peque\u00f1o apartamento urbano, o al menos as\u00ed lo cre\u00eda yo. Pero las buenas calificaciones, los reconocimientos por la poes\u00eda, los premios por mejor actriz y mi arte solo anestesiaban la realidad de vivir con el alcoholismo activo. Cuando finalmente sal\u00ed del hogar de mis padres y me cas\u00e9, estaba segura de que la vida ser\u00eda m\u00e1s estable y que ese sentimiento de tener un agujero en el est\u00f3mago finalmente se ir\u00eda. No obstante, tras abandonar ese matrimonio, tuve una revelaci\u00f3n sorprendente cuando comenc\u00e9 a asistir a Al\u2011Anon: a dondequiera que yo fuera, all\u00ed estaba yo. Yo era el denominador com\u00fan en mi vida. La primera vez que escuch\u00e9 las palabras reveladoras del lema \u00abQue empiece por m\u00ed\u00bb, supe que finalmente hab\u00eda encontrado una salida de mi ca\u00f3tica b\u00fasqueda del tesoro y ese fue el comienzo de mi viaje hacia la serenidad.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Sandi G., Florida <\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>The Forum, <\/em>noviembre de 2019<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[348,213],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27345","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-accion","category-para-padres-alcoholicos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - 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