{"id":21692,"date":"2019-01-11T08:27:48","date_gmt":"2019-01-11T13:27:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/?p=21692\/"},"modified":"2019-01-11T09:36:02","modified_gmt":"2019-01-11T14:36:02","slug":"finalmente-sali-de-la-negacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.al-anon.org\/es\/blog\/finalmente-sali-de-la-negacion\/","title":{"rendered":"Finalmente sal\u00ed de la negaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>Para m\u00ed, la parte m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil del programa de Al\u2011Anon es hacer el esfuerzo continuo necesario para ser honesta. Mi esposo, quien falleci\u00f3 hace muchos a\u00f1os, era alcoh\u00f3lico. Sin embargo, yo a\u00fan tengo dificultades para ser honesta acerca de mis sentimientos, acerca de los hechos verdaderos de nuestra vida juntos y c\u00f3mo yo contribu\u00ed a nuestra falta de sano juicio. Yo soy muy buena para la negaci\u00f3n. Ahora veo que nuestros hijos resultaron heridos debido a mi falta de honestidad con ellos acerca de a d\u00f3nde se hab\u00eda ido su padre (usualmente a beber) o por qu\u00e9 estaba enfermo (usualmente con una resaca). Les dec\u00eda a mis padres que no pod\u00edamos ir a visitarlos debido a conflictos escolares cuando, en realidad, las juergas hab\u00edan dejado a mi esposo demasiado enfermo como para poder viajar. Le dec\u00eda al jefe de mi esposo que \u00e9l no pod\u00eda ir a trabajar porque estaba reparando su cami\u00f3n, cuando la verdad era que estaba bebiendo. Yo le dec\u00eda a la gente en la iglesia que \u00e9l no pod\u00eda ir los domingos porque estaba trabajando. Durante todo este tiempo, yo me dec\u00eda a m\u00ed misma que yo era feliz, que los ni\u00f1os se estaban criando de lo m\u00e1s bien, y que \u00e9l se estabilizar\u00eda pronto. Solamente en Al\u2011Anon encontr\u00e9 el apoyo que necesitaba para mirar mi vida con honestidad, aceptar mis fracasos y comprender la verdad. Vi la negaci\u00f3n por lo que era: una excusa para no vivir la vida a plenitud.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Por Rhoda S., Texas<\/em><br \/>\n<em>The Forum<\/em>, septiembre de 2018<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_6 1_6 fusion-one-sixth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:16.666666666667%;width:calc(16.666666666667% - ( ( 4% + 4% ) * 0.16666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[348,209],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21692","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-accion","category-para-conyuges-y-parejas-alcoholicos"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - 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